I hold doors for women, why do I always get odd looks from them for doing so?

Answer 1

I don't know, I hold doors too and I always get a thank you and a smile.

Answer 2

Take note!!.. how many of these scowls come from the younger set of women. ?? I think that the younger ladies of society have somehow been brain washed into thinking that there is something wrong for a man to open a door or what ever for a woman. The rest of the general public appreciate the favour and very often the women will in kind open the door for a man especially if they see a person with arms laden with parcels, or a cane or wheelchair is involved..it is a matter of kindness and caring about your neighbors, not if anyone is male or female...let's face it gang we all could use a helping hand now and then...

Answer 3

Unfortunately, it's because they're not used to it! I grew up in Texas, and if there's one thing a cowboy is good for...it's his manners. So I'm offended when a guy DOESN'T open a door for me (I moved to Florida). That being said, I hold doors open for guys, girls, old people....it's just a nicety. It's just a shame that, like previously stated, younger girls (from places other than Texas :) aren't used to it...sad, sad day.

Answer 4

Maybe they're surprised, or just suspicious. When a guy opens a door for me I smile and say thank you, so don't think it's wrong or anything.

Answer 5

I guess that all depends on what you're using to hold the door???

Answer 6

Now days most women aren't used to that happening.

Answer 7

duh' cuz most guys these days don't do that anymore. No manners phhhh. But u should keep holding doors cuz that is so sweet of ya :] xoxoxoxox