Why would a man say that he is happy with his wife say that I am the one and then sign up to these sites and lie say he is looking or what ever one he picks to say I am free and ready to meet someone.... WHY please help me!!!
2007-10-11 07:17:44 · 15 answers · asked by krisyloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's trying to make you believe you are the only one... so he tells you this stuff so you don't go trying to look to see what he's really up to online... he wants to keep you around only because he does not want to pay alimony and child support... that's the only reason... so, dump the jerk, show him who's boss... he's not a real man, he's a boy... =(... ok, so he has not left the house, but, in all reality, he has left you emotionally to do this stuff behind your back... =(... so, now it's time to make him leave totally, give him a shove off of that fence to the other side.......
2007-10-11 07:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married man or woman for that matter has no business being on a personal site....If they aren't happy then they need to to talk to their spouse...and work whatever issues they are having out....and if nothing is working..then they should divorce....looking to meet up with someone on a personal site is cheating...
2007-10-11 07:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's just a player who has no respect for his family.
It's not because you did anything wrong. It's just because, he's been getting away with it and take you for granted.
Maybe he doesn't know for sure whether he loves you or not and you need to kick him out to find out.
Very often, they'd want to have their bit on the side, while it'd never cross their mind to leave their family. Like their family is sacred, another breed, but they are just allowed to play the field, as long as they go back home, bring the money home and do what husbands do at the weekend or on special days.
So, you probably need to bring him up to date with what marriage means in your book.
Good luck.xxx
2007-10-11 07:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people lie to their loved ones, some people cheat...some people just desire the ego boost to see if others on that site might fancy them (even if they don't intend to cheat).
The internet has brought us great information, and made our life easier in many ways, but it's also made it easier for people to be deceitful and to find others to cheat with...
Confront your husband about this (assuming that's the case here) and make it clear this behavior stops or he really will be single and looking.
2007-10-11 07:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Obama's greatest Lie is while he says: " i'm no longer a Muslim Sympathizer or a Muslim " Biden's greatest Lie is while he pronounced " it rather is a Patriotic accountability of human beings to pay extra taxes "
2016-12-29 05:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys who cheat Lie
2007-10-11 08:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only an insecure man would do this. He wants to know if is either still marketable or if he was single, would women give him the time of day!!!
2007-10-11 07:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too! I don't know why men do this. I think they want to keep their options open. Look out for yourself. If it bothers you that much, bring it up.
2007-10-11 07:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by lawstudntbynite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lot of reasons why , one of them is he's looking for variety or maybe he's just wants a ego boost.. Different reasons for different men..
2007-10-11 07:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know ,but you are not alone my husband did it when we had not been married a year and then he lied about it until i broke his user name and password on one of them.
2007-10-11 07:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋