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does having sex really hurt the first time??

2007-10-11 06:53:11 · 22 answers · asked by no name 1 in Health Women's Health

22 answers

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2007-10-13 07:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Πυθαγόρας (Pitagora) 5 · 1 1

i does the first few time, only at the beginning though. after a couple minutes in, it doesn't hurt too much.

there are a lot of things that contribute to how much it hurts. if you "play" with yourself a lot, it doesn't hurt so much because you are used to having things down there.

Also, his penis size affects how much it hurts. my first time, the guy was huge, and the first couple of times we tried, i couldn't even get it in.

make sure that the first guy is someone special, not the person you want to marry necessarily, but special.

don't forget to use a condom, birth control doesn't protect against STD's and you never know if either of you have them (some you can even develope as a vigin and pass on)

2007-10-14 16:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by marrriharri 1 · 0 0

Hey, sometimes it hurts more than just the first time. But I agree with ladylynn... I can't believe I have a sex blog at http://datcurious.com and I'm not sure if I wrote about this lol... wrote about so many other things, sex hurts after pregnancy, why women fake orgasms, how sex is healthy, etc... but not this lol... this might be next!

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2007-10-11 23:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

YES SEX hurt the first couple of times!!!!!!

2014-02-01 17:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

I dont think it hurts but some people it does for the first time though

2007-10-12 13:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes sex the first time does hurt. the amount of pain and/or discomfort is different for each girl. to help ease the pain you can always use some kind of lubricant. you can get them at stores, the KY brand name. I myself like Just Like Me (not found in stores) because it works with your body's own lubricant to create more. Plus it doesn't dry out as fast as KY so you don't have to constantly reapply. your first time shouldn't be one that you have to remember with pain. email me if you'll like to chat more about sex and romance.

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2007-10-12 02:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It only hurts if your hymen is still in tact. Lots of girls break their hymens as little girls playing, riding bikes, riding horses, playing on jungle jims, etc.

So if you know your first partner well enough to have sex with him, than of course you know to tell him that this is your first time and to be gentle and slow. If you do bleed, it won't be much, and it won't hurt that bad. It may hurt a little the second time too. He should put two fingers in first, to stretch it out, and to possibly break your hymen that way.

Don't stress about it!! Million and millions of women have had to have sex the first time!! lol It's a good thing. :)

2007-10-11 14:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 8 0

sex may hurt a bit the first time if your hymen is not broken. the main thing is lots of foreplay to get yourself really wet down there before you have sex. If you are not wet use a lube such as ky gel

2007-10-11 17:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

i wouldn't know cuz im still a virgin but tampons hurt the first time so im guessing sex would right?

2007-10-14 11:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by MACaroni 'n' cheez 2 · 0 0

yes and a lotta of the time ur hymen will break and blood may come out so puhleZe be aware of that
btw iz not gud 2 hav sex bcuz u can get stds n pregany n also iz not moral

2007-10-11 18:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by α ρℓα¢є ¢αℓℓє∂ мєℓαи¢нσℓу . 6 · 0 1

It can be painful the first time yes

2007-10-11 14:13:46 · answer #11 · answered by Bishop 5 · 0 0

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