2007-10-11 06:41:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And I'm not talking about THAT kind of slave.
2007-10-11 06:44:24 · update #1
Why do you want us to do EVERYTHING for you? All the little mundane things that you could easily do for yourself.
2007-10-11 06:46:10 · update #2
Somehow I knew this question would bring out all the, "he's not the slave, I'M THE SLAVE."
2007-10-11 06:48:56 · update #3
Ashley is at least being close to honest.
2007-10-11 07:00:35 · update #4
Clair....yes, i do.
2007-10-11 07:01:04 · update #5
leaving traces...By that definition, rape is the fault of the victim? is that correct?
But point taken. To answer the question you pose, the short anser is because I'm nice and I want my wife to be happy. And if you're talking about divorce/separation that's not an option, I took a vow. Unlike most people it means something to me.
2007-10-11 07:04:16 · update #6
HELLLLLLOOOOOOO women, If I didn't do all these chores you are bringing up, do you really think I would have asked this question?
2007-10-11 07:12:49 · update #7
Boy....if I treated my husband like a slave he'd better pack his stuff and get outta the house.
I do know what you are saying though. My sister treats her husband like he is dirt, expects him to do everything even though she doesn't work and he is working 2 if not 3 different jobs.
My husband doesn't get treated like a slave. I feel a marriage/relationship is 100/100 from both parties.
If I'm cleaning the house he pitches in. If I make dinner, he does dishes, If he cooks, I do dishes. I wash laundry, he folds, vice versa.
If someone is going to treat either spouse like that it's time to say good bye. It's not worth being treated like a slave because ultimately its going to do nothing but ruin a marriage and could make the "slave" have doubts about whether or not they should be treated like they deserve.
2007-10-11 06:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude what are you talking about? My husband wanted a dog, so we got a dog. Now he's gone for 3 weeks and I'm stuck taking care of a dog I didn't even want. Whenever he leaves for training he always leavings dishes in the sink, his clothes all over the floor and the trash is never taken out. Why do we always have to BEG you to help around the house? Nothing gets cleaned unless I do it.
2007-10-11 15:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women feel that husbands should pay for all the inequality against women in the world.
The crap that wives do is the dirty little secret no one talks about.
In Woody Allens "Midsummer Night Sex Comedy" there is a line: "When the sperm level is low men wont listen to reason, but when its high they will do anything you want."
My wife asked my why that does work on me and I said, "because I have built up a tolerance".
Women are as full of crap as men. No better and no worse, so treat them as such. Equals-Self-Centered-Jerks.
2007-10-11 14:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't treat my husband like a slave, but any woman that does obviously doesn't respect her man. The same goes for men who treat their wives like that.
2007-10-11 13:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well I don't treat my husband like a slave he does all the neccessary cleanning when i get home for work he takes it as his JOB to make me happy....
plus if I give him a little power he tends to RUN with it have to keep him in check LOL :)
2007-10-11 13:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are referring your question to all women and in that case you would be wrong, i treat my husband no different than i expect him to treat me and that is not like a slave by any means.
2007-10-11 13:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i agree with some that this question should be reverse, who comes home ordering dinner to be ready? who never does the laundry or raise the baby changing diapers, washing the dishes, women have been the slaves since the early 1800's
2007-10-11 14:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
OK. I don't treat my husband like a slave, it' 50/50; but if I ask him to do something he better.
2007-10-11 13:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetdanity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because Im a Goddess.
I dont treat him like a slave.....most of the time....just when Im really tired from working 13 hours a day!
2007-10-11 13:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
um no his butt is treated like a king...dinner done when he gets home, sex when he wants it, clothes always clean by me, put away by me, house cleaned by me...Hey wait I'm begining to think I'm the slave?! well wtf oh well the sex makes it worth it hehehe
EDIT: So since ur treated like a slave all men are?? So not true, u just married the wrong girl but if u love her then hey I give u props for doing what u do for her theres not to many out there like u!!
2007-10-11 13:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋