I dont shack up and all that I decided that men think why buy the cow when they can have the milk for free... Do you think Im doing the right thing???
2007-10-11 06:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by londonwprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If thats your belief then I say try it but honestly it seem as though today's men won't buy the cow until they've sampled the milk! Thats not to say that you should sleep around or on the first date but if you meet someone you like, ask him how he feels about the situation and if he would be willing to wait and if he says no then he's not trying to get to know you and you know whats on his agenda.
2007-10-11 06:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by concernone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly. I commend you for your wits.
I'm doing the same. I do not live with the man that I want to marry, not for religious reasons, but because I want to marry him.
If I shack up with him, it will be 10 years or never before I see a ring, and I'm sorry but if you make it easy for a man, you will make it harder on yourself. I'm not "celibate" but moving in with him is not an option, and the offering has been there a few times.
I'm with you on this one sister. Power to you!
2007-10-11 13:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that people do not decide to spend their lives together based on sex and/or celibacy.
My reccommendation is to do what you feel is right and be yourself - if that involves sex, great. If not, that's fine too. Just as long as you are completely open and true to yourself you will find someone that loves you as much as you love you!
Good Luck!
2007-10-11 13:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jenster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing the right thing. I also thinks its awesome that you feel that way. It is so rare to hear these days. You are right, most guys do think that way. You go girl!!
2007-10-11 13:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Schoolgirl504 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on whats right for you. I wanted until i was married but i had a very loving and understanding husband
2007-10-11 13:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by sarah W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're doing what is the best for you. If a man can't respect that of you. That is one less man you have to deal with.
2007-10-11 13:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely doing the right thing. I commend you and I salute you.
2007-10-11 13:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your choice and no one can tell you if you are doing the right thing or not.
2007-10-11 13:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from one woman to another , all I have to say is, honey try before you buy.....
I am not saying sex it up or anything, but dont get married before you test ride if you know what I mean.
2007-10-11 13:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds great .. but your so hot.. how will you prevail..?
2007-10-11 16:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋