she has two kids the place is three bed room. she has 1 dog and 7 bunnys. I have 1 kid and 1 dog. Help what should I do. NEED TO KNOW ASAP
2007-10-11 06:01:54 · 18 answers · asked by C F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are other places you can go, such as women's safety shelters. Some communities have agreements with local animal control services to house pets while you are in the shelter so that you don't have to give up your pet. Will your husband keep the dog for you while you get situated in another place? If he wants you out he should be adult enough to help you find a place and at least help you move.
Or if he wants out that bad....he can be the one to leave.
2007-10-11 06:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by rainysnana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a decision only you can make. But if I am understanding right and your husband is telling you to get out then that should basically make up your mind. If do you decide to leave just keep the place with your friend temporary until you find something else or you may ruin your friendship.
2007-10-11 06:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by saucy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is too little information here, is your child his, was the home his before you got married. Do you own property together? All sorts of things factor into this. And it also depends on what state you are in, and the laws of that state. You really should seek a lawyer before making any rash decisions, now if you are in an abusive relationship, then by all means, you "must" go and take your child with you!!!!
2007-10-11 06:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by twn123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband are no longer happy together and he is clearly telling you to go away then go away. You shouldn't stay in a situation where you are not welcome or wanted. This will only make matters worse. If you do go the this friends house, try to get and an apartment or something as soon as possible. that way there isn't a lot of stress on your friendship b/c on top of everything you don't need to lose your friendship.
2007-10-11 06:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by B-446 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are taking responsibility for the child and the dog so he should be the one to leave. If not and he wants you out then since he has a child he should be paying for an apartment.
Ask a lawyer and know your rights for your sake and your child's. Usually the 1st consultation is free.
2007-10-11 06:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day you have your child to think of, do you think it is going to be best for you child to move at this time? You would have to think about would he/she have to move schools,does he/she have friends where you live now? If any of these are yes then i would say No dont move. You husband should know better than to tell you to leave, he is only thinking of him self.
And to be honest with you if he has told you that you have to get out then i wouldnt anyways....he should of at least talked to you about it and asked.
Hope that helps
2007-10-11 06:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Moo _ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to consult with an attorney and throw him out. If you move out, you are abandoning him and there can be legal ramifications for that but if you are being told to move out then it is time to end the marriage on your terms, not his.
you should be able to get the house, if he has one, or he will have to pay the rent, and child support as well, and if he has been physically abusive to you, you can call the police when you have physical evidence of that and have him not only thrown out but arrested as well. Good Luck to you!!
2007-10-11 06:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your husband is telling you to get out there are problems with your relationship. ask yourself do i really want to be with someone who does not want to be with me. if you own a house together throw him out you have a child you are entitled to the house until the divorce is final this will give you time to get your life in order. you will be able to keep the house after the divorce is final if you are financially capable. explore all options don't make this easy for him.
2007-10-11 06:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by SOMEONEWHOCARES 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all see a lawyer.You may have the legal right to get him out of the home.Do it before you do anything.
2007-10-11 06:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Julius C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does he want you to go? Before leaving is there anyway you can salvage the relationship? I'd ask him to leave if he doesn't want to be with you...make HIM make the choice to leave.
2007-10-11 06:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by lahockeyg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋