just said to stop .but just the sight of my cousin wide hips and butt just makes me all tingle in side
2007-10-11 05:20:41 · 39 answers · asked by tim -wi 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Not a good idea, I'd do what your mother says. What if she gets pregnant?
2007-10-11 05:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Tim my first question to you is why you would ask anyone that question? Is this cousin a blood cousin? If so, is she a first or second cousin? If she is, then you should stop having sex with her immediately. Like everyone else here said, if she got pregnant there would be terrible complications and the baby could end up deformed or mentally challenged. I do not know why your mother just asked you to stop. I think you need more advice than that but it could be that she was just so shocked that she couldn't think of anything more to say. If you feel you cannot stop seeing her then you need to get some counseling and perhaps she does to. Do not throw your life away because of wide hips and a butt. You will find the right girl who is not related to you and be just fine. Good luck and God bless.
2007-10-11 08:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by karaokediva1960 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not ground your son for his natural curiocity of sex or for chosing to have sex, even at this young age. My biggest consern would be how does he know about sex and has someone been doing thing to your son that he is now acting out with other kids. Could be from the girl in the same concern? If both of them are that young chances of actual penetration is unlikely. I think you need to take a breath and relax a minute. Acting on it when this just happen is you acting out of desperation as to have it not be true. It is true, you saw it. My feeling is your son should be talking to his dad about what he was doing and why. If dad is not in the picture then he needs a good uncle or grand dad or any other male figure you trust. He needs the talk mom and that is ok. I would also monitor his friends in the house for a while and set up teen house rules. No closed doors with friends over etc. you know the rules, they have not changed in years. Calm down and know two thing. Your son has a nuatural curiacity for girls and you are catching this before a complaint is made for rape of a minor under the age of 12. He could be in big trouble and you need to talk to the girls parents before she does. This shows them that you are wanting to help and are concerned for both of the children not just your. You need to make sure you son did not hurt that young lady too. I am sorry this happened. Please note that most kids this age do not act out sexually in this manor unless someone is doing or has already touched them in a wrong way. How else would a 12 year old know how to have sex. Sincerely and with Care. My spell check is not wiorking so, I am sorry for my lack of language skill. Tracylyn S
2016-05-21 22:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either yr mother must be a ver very wise lady. Considering yr and yr cousine age and the theory of attraction towards opposite sex made her to understand that it is not u both ,it is her attention towards u which has failed.Shemust have shocked,but without reacting and making hue ande cryshe warned both of u.sometimesthe strong punishment in such case may result very sad end .also the relation between both the familiesmay also end.
2007-10-11 06:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your blood cousin, or through marriage?? If it's blood, I would consider stopping because that is your family. There is plenty of other women out there with a nice booty and beautiful hips. I know some people have an attraction to someone in their family but it's not right to act on it. It's going beyond another level. Find a different woman to get it on with.
2007-10-11 05:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Passion 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Leave your cousin alone and find another girl with wide hips & butt!
2007-10-15 04:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Chucksey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your cousin? isnt that illegal? if you or your cousin (don't know whether you're a g or b) were to get pregnant there is a high chance your baby could have been deformed. could you live with yourself knowing YOU did that.
i definatly wouldnt try that again.
i'm sure you'll find someone else
there are plenty more fish (that are not related to you) in the sea
emily
xxx
2007-10-11 06:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by -Green-Eyed-Angel- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best answer for this question is you can't even spell the words in the question correctly, you shouldn't be having sex with anyone, let alone a cousin. Get an education and learn how to spell and then maybe you have time on your hands for sex.
2007-10-11 05:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by ganagup 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I´d suggest going to a psicologist. Not for the mom issue but for the sex with your cousin issue...
I also suggest going out more! How few girls do you have to know to have sex with your cousin?!
2007-10-11 08:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bracefacecutie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i lost my virginity with my fisrst cousin and my parents found out 2 years later when i was 13 and they freaked out but we talked it out and i said id atop but its 6 years later and we still ocassionally have sex when we are home from college,so i suggest you stop for a month and then do every thing possible to keep it hidden from everyone
2007-10-15 02:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by jcrowley77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree , you shouldn't have sex with your cousin if she gets pregnant the baby could have many complications. Not to mention the psychological problems of having parents who are related.
2007-10-11 05:31:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋