Confess to a Scorpio?

Question

My scorpio friend put me on the spot and asked a question about where I went last weekend. I only gave a half-truth because I feel like they keep so much from me all the time. Yet I feel guilty. I am sure their intuition knows the real truth anyway. Should I confess and be honest now and risk a good friendship or swallow my pride and face the scorpio wrath ? Either way I am screwed right ? This is the best friendship I have ever had. I am miserable to think I might lose it

Answer 1

I am a Scorpio and you are correct you friend probably knows of your deceit but do not fool yourself. Being discrete ourselves we can also understand your need for privacy. You can be honest and tell your friend of your discrepancy and just explain that you will fill her in at a later date. She will feel confidante with your honesty and besides she already knows you are holding back. I doubt she is mad though. We do it all the time.

Answer 2

They probably put you on the spot and asked you like that because they knew the truth and wanted to see if you would tell them. If you are a good friend of theirs, I'm pretty sure they know you were fibbing. Really, it's best to just be honest all the time, especially with a scorpio or tell them, it was personal. They'll understand that more than you lying and then feeling guilty enough to confess. Tell them what you said, They are your friend and you cherish the good friendship...but you screwed up and do't know why you said what you said. I'm sure it will be fine. But if you don't fess up and they find out, then that's when you'll get your feelings hurt. And yes, scorpios are bad at not feeling the need to express themselves, but just talk to them. That's what friends are for. Don't be scared, if they're your friend, they'll have a soft spot for you. (I"m a scorpio...speaking from experience).

Answer 3

My bestest friend in the world <3 is a Taurus and man she is a LI_AR!! omg! now what you said (b/c we're secretive) makes total sense now that I think of it I don't tell her everything (and it's not on purpose, I trust her)... when we were younger it drove me up the wall, I probably stung her left and right- I know it certainly did piss me the hell off, but I always got over it. The longer you stay with a Scorpio the harder it is to get rid of them- so now I dont mind, Ive known her for so long and I am not that perfect of a friend either, I do and say some reactionary things that I feel are justified all the time and she's still around.
Anyways I think that it hurt her, when scorpios are in fury they are very hurt, I never react by crying, i react in contemplation for the best time (if now or for a certain event) and I measure how much and how big or how subtley but just as mean as big! It's so natural I dont even realize when i'm taking enemies out, even sub-conciously I'll remember...
But it's quite simple, obviously you know her well enough to know that something like this will push her into defense/revenge mode, so tell her look, I did lie to last weekend but I didnt mean to hurt you... tell her friends forgive and forget no one walks a perfect line- that's unfair (she should know w/ her withholding information ***), let her know that her love for you is unconditional, other ppl can have secrets too. She basically thinks that you have betrayed her and dont like her- that you lie to her cause you cant stand her, though it may seem a bit dramatic or that she doesnt have feelings, we are EXTREMELY sensitive, so she will cover it up by thwarting you... make her something small like a cookie, my friend does that, says sorry- I write her letters... its a great friendship bc its made me more confident, trusting and expressive in my relationships. It makes me believe that others can be just as loyal w/o me making them sign over their life in blood

Answer 4

My honest opinion is that if a friend lies to you constantly, you know you can return the favour and see how they respond. I had a good friend Scorpio growing up and she made up silly stories and lied for fun, So I just decided to throw it back at her and we got along much better, *even though* she did not appreciate being lied to. Why are u scared of your friend? Scorpio wrath? I didn't even know it exists really.

The one most important thing u need to know about a Scorpio when you're upset with them is be their reflection. They won't change until you directly show them what is wrong with their own behaviour. Are you doing wrong or is she? First decide this, so you can transform your relationship with her for the better.

Answer 5

I am a Scorpio and there's been times when I tell friends what they did last weekend instead of ask. Your friend already knows you lied. Don't be surprised if they slow down and cut off the friendship. Nothing bothers me more than people who lie to me. Dishonest people have no place in my life. Your right...the intuition knows the truth and you aren't going to hide it!

Answer 6

I am a Scorpio as well. I prefer my friends are straight up with me and not talk about stuff behind my back and pretend that they like me and be nice to my face. I have a Virgo friend with a Sagittarius b/f and they are totally dependent on each other and neither of them wants the other to work, they are on welfare, because of each other 'insecurities' of losing each other, both of them do petty crimes now. He does the 5 finger discount, I have never seen him do it myself, but my Virgo friend tells me so. I secretly hope that they get caught. My Virgo friend writes fraud credit card cheques using another name. I sure the hell hope that she isn't using my name on the application form for a major credit card.

I have zero part of their craft. I am slowly backing away from friendships with them. Soon I will run from them far, and won't look back this time. They are always upstairs in their house 'discussing' things. Then they come downstairs and he asks me for money for his heroin habit. Mind you my Virgo friend has 2 kids under 7 years old. I don't give them money, because he complained one day very loudly that Nobody ever helps them out, when friends stay there for dinner, only because they were invited in the first place. I have helped my friend back to back with food for her and her kids. I am never lending them money ever again. I think her b/f owes me $80 and she owes me $40. If they are going to say stuff like that, then I know what to do now.

I have known my Virgo friend for 3 years now, and she never used to be like this, before she met her Saggie b/f. Never ever. Now all their stuff is pawned and somehow, somewhere money is comming up and they have a bunch of brand new stuff. I am very suspicious of them now, to the point I don't like to go to her house anymore.

You won't be screwed if you are upfront and honest. I have a big heart and I can forgive, I have learned to do that. I won't soon forget though.

Answer 7

the person who's sign is Scorpio, usually the are good at research work, it is their natural habit to find out more about others but if you will ask them their personal information they will not like it because it the nature of Scorpio sign. so if you are a friend still it is not necessary to tell everything to other person. tell the truth to the person who really cares about you and who will help you any time. you don't want somebody else to control you life either. good friends never puts each other in any kind of troubles.
s.s.d

Answer 8

scorpios are not at shallow as you may think.

if you loose the friendship it certainly won't be because of a half truth. it will be because of the straw that broke the camel's back. scorps are loyal to their friends providing they are true friends.

in my opinion, telling her the truth would only salidify your friendship even if she gets alittle mad. she will come around and realize how hard it must have been for you to do.

i'd go with the truth, providing you let her know how you feel about your friendship and how you value it. she will know what to do.

Answer 9

I'm a skorpio and I think you should confess.It's only going to make things better. It's true that skorpios are inclined to not tell the whole truth but that's got nothing to do with him not trusting you or anything. I find it really hard to open up so I think that when I tell only half the truth that I can get away with it.
I hope this answer helped you!

Answer 10

I'm married to a Scorpio and trust me...you must tread gently!!! I would be honest as Scorpios can hold an ETERNAL GRUDGE against liars or people who have wronged them. Be honest and apologize. If you were somewhere that you are ashamed of, I would revisit that within yourself!