I asked a question in horoscopes,and one bloke said I'm seeking attention,that is so wrong ive been advised by my cpn to try this as a way of getting out and speaking to others,im very shy,i have my reasons for the way I am but im trying to sort myself out,
MY QUESTION? Child abuse is that attention seeking.
or being beaten black and blue by a boyfriend just seeking attention.
Ive been told I have ptsd due to the above, I do not seek attention from you. ok just answers.
2007-10-11 03:54:41 · 19 answers · asked by micky 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hi there try not too take it to heart some folk as just plain awful. One word of advice though drop the world English from bluebell. That word English seems to be like a red rag to bull to some and I would'nt mind betting thats what this is all about you see if I'm not right.
I used to have English Rose in my avatar until I realised why I was getting abusive emails.
2007-10-11 04:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that this is a great forum for changing the way that you are. It is not real life so you can afford to be a bit more adventurous; learn to ignore all the idiots that always crop up from time to time. Post a question that actively is seeking attention and try to be relaxed about the negative feedback it invites; with practise, this comes - then see if you can develop this bolder attitude in real life - just little steps, nothing drastic.
You don't seem to be trying to attract attention, but so what if you are? It's your life to do with as you choose as long as you are not harming others.
Good luck - enjoy yourself.
2007-10-11 11:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think either are seeking attention. And I suspect since the answer is so obvious that some people think you ask the questions for no apparent good reason. Why do you think that these would be things people allow in order to get attention?
2007-10-11 10:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, Take no notice. I know where you are coming from!
There are some real idiots on here, and I have had several people say the same thing in connection to my questions. I have had people mail me with stupid stuff as well.
To be fair hun, smile, I think these people clearly struggle for new material as they post this stuff about attention seeking time and time again....Obviously the ones seeking the attention are them.
As for being shy, and lack of confidence hun, it takes time but you will find your feet again, and get over the shyness / lack of confidence...Just believe in yourself....Been where you are hun, but you will pull though x
2007-10-11 11:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi English bluebell, I can't give you any answers just my opinion. Neither are attention seeking, both are wrong and should be reported to the relevant authorities (police). I hope you get over this quickly and best of luck in the future.
2007-10-11 11:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Joe H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are attention seeking - I think you are scared - that is understandable from what I have just read about you in your 360.
Be assured - not all men are like that.
Anyway - Child Abuse is not attention seeking - it is abuse - full stop - no excuse for it at all.
Being beaten - Again, no excuse for it whatsoever - inexcusable.
BUT, please do not categorise me (or others like me) into the same category - because we a re not at all like that -
2007-10-11 11:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the old saying my Dear,
Sticks and stones etc.
Remember that on this site there are a few Morons but there is also a lot of good people out there.
You just got to filter the idiots out.
Take Care and Remember this an Entertainment site don't take it to Seriously
2007-10-11 11:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by ashymojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and take no notice sweetheart. There are some rather sarky people on here but a lot of very nice ones as well and you certainly deserve better than to be beaten black and blue. I hope you have dumped that loser and found yourself a genuinly nice guy - you deserve it.
2007-10-11 10:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Niether one is an attempt to get attention but rather being the unfortunate victim of evil people.
If you are a child being abused go to the police, If your boyfriend is beating you black and blue go to the police.
Do not believe that it is your fault.
2007-10-11 11:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to Y/A Bluebell!! Don't worry too much, this happens every now and again. I'm not qualified to answer that question, and neither are many others. Some people are frightened or intimidated by questions they don't understand, and react in an inappropriate way. Come back soon though! Have a star!
2007-10-11 10:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jimbo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋