why is it taking us so long to conceive ?

Question

My Partner and I have been trying to get pregnant for 6 months now. We are both young fit and healthy and have both have children with other partners, so i dont think its the case of fertility problems. Can anyone help with tips on how to get pregnant naturally. I m gettin really stressed out with it all and can think of anythin else but being pregnant.

Answer 1

Because you aren't having sex at the right time. Contrary to popular opinion, there are only 2 days that a woman can get pregnant - the day she ovulates and the day after. However, sperm CAN (not WILL, but can) stay alive inside a woman's body for UP TO 5 days. Typically more like 2 or 3. That is IF, and only if, a woman's pH is the right balance.

Why are you in such a hurry to get knocked up by a guy who can't commit, even to you?

RESPONSE: I know because he already knocked up one woman and broke that off, and now he is trying to knock her up. And she got knocked up by someone else and didn't stay together. And none of the 4 of them gave any consideration to how all this partner changing would affect their kids. She's got kids already, and wants to put them on the back burner while she makes a new baby with the Stud of the Month.

Yes, I see a bright and sunny future for their relationship.

Answer 2

Please , read my article on this subject.

Over the period that laps since the last pregnancy both of you may have or one of you may have some set back in this area.
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Conceiving

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See a gynecologist with your husband/partner. The doctor may ask your husband to see an urologist with you.

This way you will eliminate any health problem that might be keeping you from conceiving, by medicating them or correcting it with procedures.

Gynecologist will give a kit, it is a natural method to conceive, it will have instructions some blank charts for record keeping and it will have a thermometer to check temperature, under the breast of the female partner.

Make sure you read the instruction in the office and ask the doctor whatever you do not understand; doctor or nurse on duty will explain it to you and the partner.

Conceiving is a perfect science.

Answer 3

we are interior an identical place as you, i'm 21 and my hubby is 22 and we've been attempting for 8 months. basically attempt and loosen up and not think of on it lots. it may take an exceptionally healthful couple as much as a year to concive and after a year you may time table and appt. with your dr. to work out if something is erroneous yet once you're the two healthful there could be no problems. even although you have been attempting for see you later you nonetheless in basic terms have approximately 25% threat of concieving each and each month.

Answer 4

My wife and I tried for a year and a half to get pregnant. We did everything that people tell you to do, as far as using pillows under her hips, sex every day, etc.

Then I bought some Liberator shapes (www.liberator.com), more for fun than to get pregnant. We started using the small wedge under her hips during the 10-day window, and after the first month we were pregnant. Now I know it could just be luck or what not, but it worked for us.

Answer 5

Before I answer your question, I have to get something out...

To: Frissy
She came on here to find help on ways to get pregnant. Not a counseling session on why she is trying with somebody who can't commit. How do you know he can't commit? How do you know they aren't happily in love? You do NOT have to be married to be together. My boyfriend and I have known eachother our ENTIRE lives, have been seeing eachother for almost 5 years, and have a beautiful 3 year old daughter together. We live together, do everything together, are very much in love and are going to spend the rest of our lives together, but neither one of us have ANY desire to go through the process of "marriage". Ok. Enough of that.

On to you're question. We also have been TTC baby #2. You should go to www.mycycle.com and track all of your information on the charts. Make sure you are accurate every month. I have heard many good things about this site from many people, that is what we are using now also :) After sex, tuck a pillow under your bottom it helps to keep the "goods" in. And a HUGE must, is HAVE FUN :) I know its hard not to think about the goal but trust me, the most IMPORTANT thing is to enjoy yourself, enjoy being with your partner, and get your mind off of the goal. A little romance is nice too :) Good luck to you guys! :)

Answer 6

Personally I know that there is a "technical" time when your suppose to try and conceive, but I believe you should just let it happen. Don't try so hard, even though the odds are better you will get pregnant at certain times-I still believe it is up to fate in order for it to happen.
It will happen, quit worrying and have fun!!! Heck, I can't have kids anymore, but it doesn't mean I don't pretend I can :)

(( Also stress is not good for you, it (can) cause(s) gray hair, minor hair loss, rise in blood pressure, sometimes abnormal aggression, and overall unhappiness. ))

Good Luck.. :)

Answer 7

You answered the question yourself! You are getting stressed out over not getting pregnant. You seem to have made it more of a chore and less fun to try to conceive, that's the first thing that any book will tell you RELAX!! And not to try every single night...he needs recovery time and so do you!

Answer 8

i have been trying to get pregnant since i had a miscarriage 15months ago but with my son and the baby i lost i fell pregnant straight away so it will happen when it does worry over it doesn't help or trying to hard either. i also cant stop thinking about baby's but I'm not letting it control my thoughts all the time because it will happen when it wants

Answer 9

ur getting up tight about it and i from experiance know that is the worst thing it doesnt seem to happen if u stress about it and it seems to make love making for a baby ur only goal .best advice is to have sex as much as poss and try to not make geting preggers ur only motive and u will see it will happen ,i miscarried then was told ur very fertile after this ,but because i stressed over wanting to become pregnant my periods just kept comming ,once i stopped getting worked up over it ,i tested randomly one day and found i was preggers ,so best of luck to you .

Answer 10

Hi. My hubby & I have also been trying to fall pregnant for 2 yrs now with no luck. We have been to a specialist & are both in good health. Sometimes I guess there just is no explanation.