Margaret (mum)
1948 - 2007
2007-10-11 01:10:15 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dear Mum.
I know your pain is horrible and you feel lost with out her.
You will never forget her, she is with you always.
I lost my daughter to cancer in 1990, and I remember her like she was here yesterday.
You might find a site where you can make an on-line memorial for your mom. It will help you mourn her passing and help cherish the memories you had with her. I made a site for my daughter using Yahoo/geocities, and it turned out rather nice and was emotionally healing for me. It might help you as well.
Writing down your feelings about her is a good idea.
sending my thoughts during your most difficult time.
2007-10-17 21:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget your mum, but if you are scared you might, try creating a box of memories!
Generally it is something aimed at children, but when my husbands mother passed away two years ago - it hit him really badly, he was 31 at the time but had always been mummys little boy.
So I suggested creating this box - we collected various odds and sods, like pictures, ticket stubbs, and even menus from places they went for dinner (shh - don't tell the restaurant - we know its stealing!) We bought a bottle of the perfume she wore and put that in the box!
Some of the stuff we talked about before it went in the box, yet there is lots in there we havent spoken about. Now if he is feeling down about missing her, we pull it out - its great for reminding him of the good times - the photos make sure he never forgets what she looked liked, and being able to smell her makes him feel like she is close!
Might seem a bit daft, but it works at any age!
Take care and my thoughts are with you.
2007-10-11 01:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You never forget someone you love. AS time passes, the memories become stronger but less painful.
When my mum passed away i pray to god to take away all memories of her coz it was too painful. That's was 1 year ago. Now it's her memories that keep me going.
However much time go by, she will always be with you. Love and memories never diminish. We only forget the sad parts.
2007-10-11 01:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Saphire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very sorry to hear that..
Well you'll never forget the memories of her but if your worried you will then why not make a book of/for her..
find all the photos of her you can (save one for yourself if you want) then stick one photo on each page & write down a memory of her on that day or a memory of her that your reminded of when you look at that photo...
I know you may not feel like it but it would help you to grieve if you haven't managed already..
Very sorry for your loss
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2007-10-11 04:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by ♪KeepYaHeadUp♪ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, my thoughts are with you, losing a parent is a hard hurdle to get over. Think about the good times and talk about her to whoever you can. Try not to dwell on your loss, but cherish the warmth she gave you.
Writing down your memories is a good idea, because then they can be passed onto your children too so they can have a link to someone from their past. Putting them all into a box, cd, envelope, drawer, whatever, means you will have something tangeable to remember her by.
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2007-10-11 02:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by millie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mum.
I lost my Mum six years ago and not a day goes by that I don't think of her.
I have photos of her, and i occasionally watch videos of her with the family...that makes me cry, but there is nothing wrong with that.
You'll never forget your Mum, but it's not until she's gone that you realise what you had
2007-10-12 11:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by elsie1912 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry darling...and you will NEVER forget her because she will always be with you in your heart and mind forever. My mom lived long to be 85 and died 5 years ago and I think of her everyday. She's always with me. I still talk about her in ways like..."Mom would have said, or Mom would have done it this way, or What would Mom do about this." I even have a little plate on my kitchen window that reads..."Mirror, mirror on the wall...I'm like my mother afterall." She had long beautiful hair and wore it in a french twist and she was always a beauty. Since she passed I let my hair grow and wear it up or back and everyone who knew her says..."Gee, as long as you are here...your mom will never be gone." I love it when people tell me I look and talk like her...somehow it keeps her nearer me.
Bless you.
2007-10-12 12:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget your mum she will always be in your heart and in your mind and whenever you look at something or hear something you will always think of her and if she wore something that was her favorite and that you liked to see her in that will help you remember her or even if you have a picture of your mum that will also help too.So you see there are ways to remember your mum.
2007-10-11 01:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by tay tay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am really sorry for your loss. When my friends father died, she was only 16 and she started writing down things she remembered about him and the funny things he used to do so that when she was sad, she would pull out her box of memories and look through them. Maybe this will help keep the small memories you will remember fresh in your mind. x
2007-10-11 01:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have my sypathy for losing a Mum so young. You will need no help in remembering; The good memories will last longer than the present hurt.
God bless you; you will be in my prayers.
2007-10-11 04:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋