Just to list a few:-----
# Broken Relationships/Families
# People conspiring against you
# Materialistic friends
# Back Bitters
# Cut throat competition
2007-10-11 00:36:56 · 24 answers · asked by Mills 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Life is negative when you have a net 'take' mentality and follow through on that basis.
You must approach life from a net 'give' perspective. Then, life will give back to you.
Learn how to build relationships effectively, and yours will thrive.
Learn to be a high quality person, and choose high quality people to associate with, and conspiracy will never cross their minds.
Be interesting enough to attract friendships with people of all ages, all walks of life, and materialism will never even enter the picture.
Present your smile, your best empowerment and support to people (instead of your butt for them to kiss) and your back will stay intact.
Learn the tenets of competition and join in with people who enjoy it when it is well done. Cutthroats are amateurs.
Life is what you make it. You can stay on the bottom and fight over crap with the losers or you can improve yourself and qualify for interaction with those reared by principle. It's up to you.
2007-10-11 00:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
This may sound cheesy, but life is exactly what you make of it. Think positive, and consequently life will be positive. Why list the bad things of life when you can list the good stuff?
-Successful relationships
-People working with you as a team
-Honest and loyal friends
Just cut out the negative things in your life. You don't need back-stabbing friends or even people who go against you. Although at times we are all inclined to feel a little negative, we should all ensure that these feelings are only temporary.
Life is positive. Period. Make that your mantra and it will be. There are so many good things in life. No matter how messed up it may seem to be, life always has a bright silver lining. Just believe that. I myself have extremely negative moments, but I learn from them and therefore make them a little more positive.
Be happy, even though it is easier said than done, it is not impossible.
2007-10-11 07:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by Hitwad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In asking "Why is life negative" you are stating that life is negative, which indicates your "negative" attitude towards life itself, which also can make you more a part of the problem than the solution.
You may find that life can be very negative under certain conditions, and depending on your surroundings, and who you surround yourself with. In the same light, you will find that surrounding yourself with positive, happy, optimistic people will make things seem more positive.
Some say "if you have lemons, make lemonade" which basically means that life is what you "make" of it. If there are certain things that are out of your control (and believe me, there's always something, or someone, somewhere, or some situation that you will not be able to control) then do what you can to cope, and move around that obstacle, instead of trying to conquer it head on.
Adapt and overcome (if you can't change the weather, then change your clothes), think outside the box, and surround yourself with friendly and wise people and they will start to rub off on you.
Take care and best of luck!
2007-10-11 08:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by stevepg82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new relationship/family/friend. You're affected by the company that you choose to keep. It's a stressful world that's overcrowded and greedy. Find your own little corner and brighten it up with a garden even if it's a marigold seed in a styrofoam cup with a little bit of Earth. YOU will be growing something to improve your outlook. Good things are out here too but you DO have to hunt for the bargains. The best news is that you are negative now but YOU will attract positive people and repel negative ones. It's true that it works that way.
2007-10-11 07:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by midnite rainbow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life isn't negative; rather there are negative things in life, a few of which you have listed. Yet there are also positive, and neutral things in life.
It isn't full of all negative things. This is faulty thinking, yet it is a common thought. I think it myself at times, particularly when something that saddens me has happened in my life, and things which I have no control over. It's frustrating. Be strong and don't let the b*st*rds get you down!
Live life the way you believe it ought to be, and show people how it's done.
2007-10-11 07:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are negative things that happen in life. You cannot control a lot of this. What you can control is what you do. Also, your perspective on things can change how you look at life. Take control of the things you can and work on those that are important to you. Those people who are particularly negative avoid where you can. You will do much better if you can do this.
2007-10-11 08:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of negative, but thats what makes it life. You are sent times to trial you, and good things happen as a "reward" for surviving. If you focus on the bad too much, you tend to lose all confidence, self esteem, and trust in others. As i said before, its all a test, and most people will pass
2007-10-11 07:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Boy due 12/12/09 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not the life which you termed as "Negative".
It is the attitude by which person sees the life as negative or positive. There are certain phases in everyones life when one start thinking that he/she is the only one left on this earth whose life is nightmare. Just open your eyes and look around you and you will find people having more difficult issue then yours.
2007-10-11 07:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Vipul Rastogi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"expections"... tat is wat makes life negative.. every possible problem one faces in life is cuz of involvement of some other soul.......expectations from familly, frnds,relatives,or jus anyone around....expectation tat people should understand u..
y does ur happiness ve to be dependent on someone else..y not make the equation independent of all factors...
trust urself, n most important LUV urself....sometimes (n only sometimes) its not bad to think tat u r the only one wid brains around.. n tat people aint got enought brains to understand u...so dont expect anything from them but expect only from urself...to give..to give to family, frnds,relative or whole world.....n not expect anything back...u do this n one day life will stop being negative..
i kno its easy to talk n really toughto do it....but everyone does easy things y not be someone to try sth tough.. n i asure u there r people who r doin this.. so if anyone can do on earth u can do it as well
2007-10-11 23:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by mrinal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life has it's ups and downs. You better stop thinking you should be the first person ever just to be happy all the time. You'll end up depressed.
2007-10-11 07:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by bigwavefred 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋