When your lover is cheating on you.... which of the two hurts more??

Question

- He/she is cheating you with someone lesser than you....
- He/she is cheating you with someone major than you...

Because the soul of the cheater is an Abyss!!! ;))

We all know cheating hurts anyway. But, this is a question of...statistics! Let us be kind of..sarcastic and answer, choosing between those two options!, :))

Answer 1

Well that would be with a lesser... Though there would still be an excuse for that someone... I mean even if you have fillet at your plate every day, you'll miss the burger at some point... ;)

If the lover was just a lover, and not my love, then I would do the same, take some pics as a souvenir, and send them over at the ...lover's home address... Just to know that I can do it too.. And believe me it would be with someone much major... ;)

Answer 2

When my pupils in exams cheat, they always cheat with someone major than them if they want to get an A. If they cheat with someone lesser than them they get D and this hurts very much. So, cheating with lesser is worst, especially with pupils.

Answer 3

My husband could leave me for another man and it would still hurt like hell just knowing I wasn't good enough for him and I failed. I don't care if he's been a closet homo his whole life. Any cheating hurts. I've been the lesser and the major and it's all the same.

Answer 4

They sound the same to me. It's cheating either way. :-(

I'm used to be cheated upon either choosing somebody gorgeous or one lacking in brains! Grrrrr....

Problem when your lover cheats? They don't give a f**k about your feelings! You can cry a river & they wouldn't even notice it! They also have the nerve to give the silent treatment! Why, don't I have a say on this!? Oh, and they actually enjoy seeing you hurt! Damn them all! To hell with them!

Answer 5

I think both of those can be part of the insecurity of being the one cheated on, but not so much the part that hurts. The part that hurts most, I think, is the fact that you've put so much and devoted so much into something that might not of been real. You're whole perception of your relationship is challenged. And, you realize things weren't the dream you thought they were.

Answer 6

I think it hurts more when they cheat with someone less than you. Then you think what the hell since you know that you are more experienced and have more to offer. It makes you think that they want someone who is more naive or easily manipulated. When they cheat with someone better than you then at least you know that they can offer something that you couldn't. Either way it does suck.

Answer 7

you'll by no skill discover happiness with this guy. he's dishonest on you, he's dishonest on the different female, he will continuously be a cheater. you should promote off him, and performance not something more desirable to do with him. do not attempt to 'practice him a lesson' which will purely cheapen you, and provides you him an excuse for his moves.

Answer 8

First one

Answer 9

if she was cheating on me with someone lesser than me... i'd feel sorry for him, because he's not going to be emotionally equipped to deal with it when she does it to him later on. if she cheats with a better man than me, he's going to realize she's a cheating skank-bag before i knew it, so he'll dump her eventually anyway. either way i win, because i don't have to deal with her adolescent head games anymore.... oh, and the next time she won't be able to drive home on four flat tires(hehehehehe...)

Answer 10

Just the fact of her preferring someone else over me. But my lover is true to her word, and a faithful friend! A friend to the end!