We talk all the time. I feel the connection. I just don't think she would admit it if I asked her. She's straight. But she calls me all the time, and always wants to be around me. I think she knows I'm into her, but how can I tell if she's into me...seems like we play a lot of games. And I just wanna get to the bottom of it.
2007-10-10 17:53:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
All the girls I've ever been with were straight. I was all of their first experiences with a girl. So...
2007-10-10 18:02:25 · update #1
I am supposedly straight but i am sooo in love with a friend of mine at the moment. Everytime she IMs me I have a need to bring out all my issues and she is a great person to talk to them about. But then i feel something more. I feel a connection with her that I feel with no one else. To compensate for me not expressing my true feelings i like to play games with her and ask her very "provocative" questions. Also I always tell her that I love her and she says it back. The problem is she thinks I'm super straight and will never even think of me as bi or a lezzy. But I am willing to change my orientation for her because i love her. i would give it all up. honestly. So if you want to get to the bottom of it just ask her because maybe she will be someone like me. If you talk all the time and feel a connection I don't think she will be offended or your friendship will not be put at stake if you ask her the question "if she sees you more than just a friend". Don't worry if she doesnt call you for a couple days because that is normal. But I have a feeling she will call. Hope this helps. She is one lucky girl.
2007-10-10 18:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sappho's Nymph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be bi-curious (something very common w/ ALL women), wanting a one trip in bed to see what such intimacy is like. And there's nothing wrong with that at all.....provided she FIRST approaches you with the notion and you respect her feelings if afterwards it's not for her.
If you play a lot of "games", then my hunch is it's only a matter of time when SHE brings up the subject you should prepare yourself for now.
2007-10-11 01:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, I won't lie, the alcohol answer is a pretty good one. I mean, don't be an alcoholic, stay in school, etc....but if you can drink responsibly...well I mean there's a reason people like to do it. This is one of them.
2007-10-11 04:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know she's straight, don't bother. Just be happy being friends.
2007-10-11 00:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her drunk and tell her and see what she says. Despite what people say, alcohol makes people bring their guard down.
(and don't bother with the thumbs down all you prudes)
2007-10-11 01:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Renesme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋