2007-10-10 17:46:07 · 18 answers · asked by ms.confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not me who cheated a husband... I have a friend who is seeking my advice if she's to tell or not... It's haunting her for many years.
2007-10-10 17:54:28 · update #1
It depends upon the relationship you are in. If its based on truth and loyalty, then its best to take the other guy into confidence and admit one's fault. It also depends what type of personality you are dealing with. If the other person is too possessive and suspicious in general, then its best to avoid the mention of it, because it would only complicate the future. But to begin with why not abstain from cheating. That is the best course.
2007-10-10 17:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by qualittee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my spouse so I can not answer on that level .
I can how ever answer on the level of being the 1 who was cheated on , had my husband been more open and upfront then maybe I could have forgiven him a lot easier and our marriage wouldnt have ended , because he was so adamant in protecting himself from me becoming angry and hiding it even after the fact of being busted.
Your friend should tell her husband and take what comes other wise when he does find out and he will find out they always do , it'll be a whole lot worse then her coming clean on her own.
2007-10-10 18:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are guilty of cheating and you really love him, tell him and be prepared.
I have never been in that situation, but if I was
(you can't miss what you can't measure) I would just have to kiss up to him and never say a word Lets avoid the hurt and anger and never let happen again
2007-10-10 17:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by LovelyChoc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Cheated On Your Husband WHY???
2007-10-10 17:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jynx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the cheating happened many years ago...let bygones be bygones. unless if its affecting the current union otherwise some things are better left unsaid.
eventhou' she is still hunted by her infidelity but its a small price to pay for a bad action that should have not happened in the first place so bear it rather than risk jeopardizing the current relationship.
2007-10-10 18:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you should tell him or her, hiding your infidelity will eat you up, and when it does come out the partner will feel even worse. The relationship will not succeed because the partner was not trusted enough to be told earlier. They have been betrayed and are still being betrayed be not being trusted enough to be told.
2007-10-10 18:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by D Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't put myself in the position of cheating and therefore I don't have to walk around with the burden of guilt.
2007-10-10 17:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by pinegirl7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i did i would always tell him the truth always BUT I never never cheat on him EVER IN MY ENTIRE LIFE! cheats are awful! and i am not the person who is cheating.
2007-10-10 18:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then she should tell him. Are you going to let her take her secret to the grave? What she did was wrong and should not keep that from someone she loves. Well if she keeps that secret she WILL feel guilty for the rest of her life.
2007-10-10 18:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by BrownSugar 2 Da Maxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because I haven't cheated him.
2007-10-10 17:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋