one of my friend always picks on me? how do i stop him and get his respect
2007-10-10 16:53:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get even with him.
Find something to kick him back. Or if you can't, avoid him for a while. Or just ignore his existence, don't pay attention to him, focus to others
2007-10-10 17:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tried talking to him and that didn't work then it's time to play "dirty". You need to start picking back at him. Guys are always picking on each other! Women are just down right mean but guys are always putting their friends down. I hear guys doing this to each other all the time. So the next time you see your friend say something rude aka "picking". He will either get the picture and stop or you will get the satisfaction of getting him back. Don't hold back be as "rude" to him as he is to you.
If you keep being nice though and you say nothing then he is never going to stop.
2007-10-10 17:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is living her life like a tornator and you are trying to bring back cosy times? I would call her occationally and go for a Sunday picknick with her - or a matinee then some coffee somewhere she may get to know you with her being pressent with you. But it is a very casual friendship nothing personal there so let her give you attention you have been giving her a lot of that and it's really not needed. I get from what you write that she is not your girlfriend. So just geton with what you need to do and stay polite with her.
2016-05-21 03:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're too nice that even if they're making fun of you to the point where it's becoming an insult, you still smile and just let it go - or so they think.
next time, tell them that you would appreciate if they stop the jokes coz sometimes, it's only them who's laughing. if they are good friends, they would stop. if they continue making fun of you i'd say move one and be friends with someone else that would give you the respect you deserve.
there's always a time for jokes and fun, but you have to know where to draw the line.
2007-10-10 17:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by magicdust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is trying to be the dominant one. the alpha dog. he sees you as a beta dog. the one that's gonna get the raw end of the deal. "talking it out" doesn't work with alpha type guys. you can try asking him to quit picking on you...he's just gonna pick on you more. it's gonna take something like a punch in the face or a fight just to stop him (like tell him to quit picking on you and then you guys get in an argument and then you guys just duke it out). even if you did lose the fight, he'll stop picking on you after that and give you some respect for even trying.
i'm not saying that i promote the violence. i'm just saying it's the reality of it. if "talking it out" actually works, then kudos to you!
2007-10-10 17:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by mymymissmai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say..."And what was your point of saying that?" if they are speechless like i assume they will be then there u go. If they say something nasty back tell them the good side of what your being picked on for. Example.
OMg those clothes are so ugly.
What was you point of saying that?
To point out how ugly ur clothes are duh?
Well I didnt know you had a Mastors degree in Fashion.lets see your business card. Oh you dont have one. thats to bad. Excuse me for my misshap. If you think theyre so ugly why would you be talking to someone with ugly clothes it might rub off on you. oops it already did!
take your pick and have fun.
2007-10-10 17:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzylovestodance 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not your friend. Punch him in the face and dump him.
2014-05-17 23:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him: Why do you always pick on me?
2007-10-10 16:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow up and get over himself.
Most people bag or put down other people in order to make themselves feel better about their **** lives. So just ignore them
2007-10-10 16:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Relationshipguro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand up to him. Tell him, "This is not how friends treat each other."
2007-10-10 17:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋