There is a guy at the gym whose I can't keep my eyes away from. Whenever I go to the gym and he's there (which is all the time!), I can't help but look at him. He knows I look at him frequently too. Apparently he's not freaked out by my looking or otherwise he would have say something or change his gym schedule to avoid me.
Hmm, should I just walk up to him and introduce myself?
2007-10-10 16:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He noticed you and does not avoid you. Go ahead and introduce yourself and try to start a friendship starting with a work our partnership. If he is very interested try to go further
2007-10-10 16:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'shard to say. When I was younger I used to get the stares a lot more than I do now. But I wasn't there to socialize, I worked out and got out. I would get annoyed if someone stared TOO long, but I never said anything just out of politeness.
If you think he's reacting to you positively (or at least not negatively), then sure - walk up. Or, you could "accidentally" bump into him in line at a juice bar if your gym has one, and say hello.
But I wouldn't take his lack of conversation to mean that he is interested necessarily.
2007-10-11 03:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Clint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I don't go to the gym. I like to go to work out. I hate being bothered. I'm sweating, I stink, I sure don't want another guy or girl talking to me. I want to look good for them.
Just my thought.
Sorry but I personally wouldn't want you to talk to me. I hate being bothered at the gym. That is why I work out at home.
2007-10-10 16:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy Thompson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you can work in with him doing alternating sets when you see him on one of the machines that you use. Then you can introduce your self and see if anything happens.
2007-10-10 17:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight men stare at women for long periods of time, without knowing the woman's sexuality....why should it be wrong for you to do it?
2007-10-10 17:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, especially if they have bigger boobs than i do. Oh, wait, this is for gay men!?!?!? My bad.... ( lol, i was trying for humor, no harm intended!!) By all means introduce yourself!!, Because staring is a rude behavior, I would want to know the name of the man who is staring at me, at least !! Doesn't matter if he is gay/ bi/ str8, I would want to know his name! Nothin ruder than a stranger staring!!! .
2007-10-10 17:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not you have nothing to loose. If nothing else you will probably end up being friends and one can't have enough friends!
2007-10-10 17:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by DGH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love when people look at me. It's a turn on.
2007-10-10 18:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Be friends then see if he wants more. He might find you attractive.
2007-10-10 16:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes....before he identifies you as a weirdo. ;)
2007-10-10 16:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋