2007-10-10 15:18:44 · 46 answers · asked by hasafer 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well hasaafer, think of it this way...
anything is possible, seeing and touching and looking at someone isnt everything. on the phone or messenger, u get to know a person alot more, then u know how they think and who they are so its less akward in person. its alot easier to express yourself and be open on the phone or messenger than in person. so usually u find out more about a person this way. especially if u talk alot for a long period of time and both people are honest with each other. and u can also use webcam and u can see the person during numerous situations, like just when they woke up and other times when people dont look their best, and u know u love them if u think they are the most handsome person on earth anyways. when that person becomes the light in ur life, the reason for your smile when u are sad, the only person u wanna talk to, the only person u can share all your secrets with, somebody u can see urself growing old with, some one u can be urself around, someone u can talk to all day and not get tired, somebody who understands u, somebody who calms u when u are sad or angry, somebody who would leave everything he has in his home to come and be with u....
then yea, i guess u can be in love with someone without actually meeting face to face first
relationships that start out online, grow more and there is more trust than ones that begin in person
thats just what i think
2007-10-13 10:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by ABANDONED 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible. I knew my husband through his brother who was in USA but my husband was in Egypt and I was in USA. We talked on phone, online for hours daily. And of course we exchanged pictures and sometimes saw each other on webcam ;) I can say I had a lot of feelings for him close to love, but I was very definite it was real love when I met him face to face. m
Sometimes people get to talk rarely online and not even see how the other person looks like and do not communicate that much and think that this is love. A lot of people lie abt their true identity too. Those are examples of long distance relationship but they're different. Some can be real and can be worked out and some not.
I do not advice that a long distance relationship be longer than a few months. I met my husband after 5 months of knowing him. Some people wud waste a yr, 2, or more without seeing the person they're talking and end up being shocked cuz they feel it's just not the same.
why? r u in love with someone u haven't seen hehehe
2007-10-11 01:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i have always been asking my self this question with no convincing answers, the problem that when i see alot of people and think that this person is some one that i can love but the problem is that i keep my self away from love as much as i can because a broken heart heals slowly, on the other side if i loved someone i have never seen then it would be a pure love away from the superficial materials - which is to some extent important - but i am not sure how far i can get through this relation ship.
However, i think my answer is yes after all that, if you found some one that loved you it would be a great mistake - no a huge one - to let this love slip from your hands.
2007-10-12 07:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by بهي الطلعه 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to see something to feel it in your heart.
Yes I can love someone without even seeing them. Because we love the things with our heart not eyes.
2007-10-13 22:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by C. is taking a break! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can fall in love with someone without seeing them. However, once you meet them you might find out they are entirely different than the idea you were in love with.
2007-10-13 10:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by The Ministry of Common Sense 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can admire, respect or think highly of someone, but to love it needs dealing with the other person in many ways. You have to see how the other person reacts to different situations, how much he/she cares for you, is ready to compromise, to sacrifice and how he/she treats you. Love will come without calculations of these things but it is a result of all of them put together.
2007-10-11 10:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Balsam 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Come on you can not fall in love. Maybe care for someone tremendously. When you go out for example beauty catches your eye. be honest. then maybe their body , the way they walk. Let say if you fall in love on line and finally see the person and it is not what you expect. Girls, buck tooth, one eye man, bad hair, you know some of those qualities that you tell yourself you could not handle. Men, you know what you like and do not like. What about the sexual intimacy. I personally believe that you can like someone alot. maybe it can become love but not love online just like that.
You have to fully get to know the person first, completely i mean.
2007-10-11 02:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by cw 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you want my honest opinion? I know you are referring to online relations, so I have to say that I think you can develop very strong feelings for someone and a deep connection that way ... but true love, I'm not sure really. You fall in love with an idea of a person, what you imagine they are like, but you don't really know what they are like for sure till you see them in person.
I'll speak of my personal experience ... not of love online, but friendship. I started sending messages to a very dear friend from YA after having her answer several of my questions first. I felt that she was the sweetest person in the world and after talking to her on the phone I grew to love her even more. After meeting in person, I knew I had made a true friend for life. She's the sweetest human being ever and I would do anything for her.
I think with love it's the same. You can grow very close to a person online, but in order to be sure of your feelings 100% you have to meet in person and get to know each other better. Online relations are like an engagement sort of, you only show your best side. Meeting a person is like marriage so to speak ... you see all aspects of the person that were hidden before behind the screen. You know the proverb ... ti3raf folan ah ... 3ashirto la2 ... tib2a mati3rafhoosh! I believe that is sooooooo true. Even during the engagement period when you see the person in real life, you still don't get to see all aspects of his/her personality. People always put on a front and are on their best behaviour then. It is dealing with each other day in and day out and seeing the worst of each other that is the true test of any relationship. God knows hubby dearest has seen A LOT of "worst" from me! lol And here we are al7amdulilah 11 years later ... So all I can say is good luck to you with everything. Just put your relation to the test first and see if it withstands the trial. Meanwhile, embrace whatever it is you are feeling because it really is the sweetest part of the relation and those feelings do change over time no matter how hard you try to maintain them ... they are replaced by a sweeter more subtle love and caring rather than a fiery passionate love. Just live it, enjoy it, and pray for the best.
2007-10-10 17:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 1⤋
hasafer
yes you might love some one with out seeing him
if you have that great deal of love inside you
and you just have thew feeling of the person in question full feel the image you might have in mind perfection.meeting in thoughts...... you might fell in love
this is for eid
i know two pple like the silent not talking fellas
they used to set on the internet hours and hours without speaking or typing absolute silence hours and hours they were so deeply in love and they never saw one another
2007-10-10 23:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i dunno,maybe i can love him if i didn't meet him,but at some point i have to see his pic or sth so i wouldn't build an image in my mind that would be non-realistic and then i'd be shocked to see him.
ya noha_maybe you can "like" him before you see him but "love" is strong word so you can say i love someone without seeing him,you'll picture him as "your" dream man,and once you see him there's a chance of being shocked,
i don't have experience in that matter,but i know what's love
2007-10-10 23:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋