hi ok so i have like a best friend her anme is kaitlyn i used to do everything with her i was like loving her so much and i still talk to her and everythjing but when ever we talk we fight like just resintly i though she changed my pasword becuase she was pissed at me and then this new girl came into kaitlyns life and i HATE her i mean it might just be of jeliousy but i dont think so but ok so i dont no what to do i have to do something i mean i cant just sit her and let this ***** take my bestfriend away!!!!!! wait can i? plz help i am in deprate need of it thank you
2007-10-10 13:18:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow that sounds bad. But I know where its coming from.
There are a few possibillitys on what she is trying to acomplish. For one the hate for the girls seems like jealousy to me. Its not a bad thing you cant help it but its not a good thing either. I used to have a best friend and we did ABSOLUTELY everything with each other. We started fighting and getting mad at each other. She then started getting new friends and got a new best friend. I to was very jealous of the fact. But i then realized that it was her loss and that it was fun for those years. You can try to ask her maybe talk to her ask her if you did anything wrong. You probobly didn't. Its okay it happens to everyone. Things change and maybe if you arn't as close to her you can meet new people. Trust me it happens to everyone. Good Lucky!
Just live life to the fullest, and say what you want to say don't have any regrets later.
Good Luck with that =)
2007-10-10 13:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Leahhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a person that has gone through a few bff's in the past few years i can tell you that when someone else comes on your turf it sucks but some people are only in our lives for a 'season' and people do fade out of our lives...and hey my first best friend was totaly wrong for me( at the time I ddt c it that way) the next one i got i still have to this day. Everything happens for a reason.
2007-10-10 13:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude she is not your best friend since the moment you got in a fight. And its not like her new friend forced her to talk to her. Kaitlyn girl agreed to do so. If it really bothers you, talk to her about it. I am sure she doesn't wanna send a bff down the drain. Talking is the only way you can solve a problem between 2 people!
2007-10-10 13:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this **** happens all the time unfortunately but take it on the bight side maybe you need 2 find other friends as well:) who knows maybe you'll be much more happier with the new 1 eh
2007-10-10 13:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by halo alpitu! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya gonna lose ya friend if ya jealous of her new friend pple change all the time but there is only ever one true friend and that is a friend who is there even if they don't want u at the time my advise is to stick it out and let her see how much of true friend u really are
2007-10-10 13:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by ck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human beings advance up and alter,this is a fact of existence and there is no longer plenty you're able to do approximately it. I actual does no longer get depressed approximately it. whilst i grow to be 15,the same factor occurred to me. i began out to flow away into yet another group of buddies as my previous buddies began to reject me. they did no longer like the guy who i grow to be,even in spite of the undeniable fact that i grow to be plenty happier and that they even have been given particularly spiteful. So I carried on doing what i grow to be doing because of the fact it made me happy and so did my new buddies,so I left them to in spite of they had to do and that i did my factor. do exactly no longer evaluate it a super loss,buddies come and flow,particularly in school so attempt to no longer worry approximately it plenty. i wish issues paintings out for you. solid luck and proper needs for the destiny x
2016-12-18 04:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you being like this could be what is driving her away. do you expect to spend all of your moments with just one friend!!! you will burn her out and will have NO chance of salvaging a friendship.and it is NOT your choice to say if she gets new friends. you need to grow up and get over it, if i had a friend like you i would get new friends too,
2007-10-10 13:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by loppinaroundrabbitry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe losing a best friend but not necessarily a friend.
2007-10-10 13:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by TicToc.... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks you like a guy she likes... or she thinks your imature... truy to talk it out
2007-10-10 13:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to grow up and realize that you are being possessive of your bff
2007-10-10 13:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋