She also told me that she wants me in her life and doesn't want to loose me. Please give me some insights here!
2007-10-10 13:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by BBC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like she is a little confused right now.. the worse thing that you can do is asking her WHY....
The best thing that you can do (and what I am going to tell you all comes from experience)..agree to allow her to have time to herself to find out what she is looking for..during the mean time, YOU my friend needs to go on with your life, go out with friends, make new friends, at first it will seen awkward, but the longer you do it the easier things will be...find a hobby anything, just DO NOT sit home and wonder what she is doing or call her...sometimes absent makes the heart fonder and you don't realize what you have or had till it is no longer around...it will be easier for her to make her decision if your not moppin around and she See's that your out having fun and continuing on with your life,, believe me just try it for 2 weeks and you will see a difference.
2007-10-10 13:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Five years. Serious relationship, yeah?
Seems like there's a lot of things heavily weighing her mind. Maybe she's all stressed and needs time for herself. Don't take it as a break up, but maybe give her space to relax herself.
It's kind of hard to have a break with someone after being with them for a long time. But if she ask for some space, maybe she really needs it. If she's going through a really rough time, give her space.
Maybe in the mean time.. Surprise her with something little to brighten up her day.. Make her feel better. So she doesn't feel totally alone and let her know that you'll still be there for her no matter what.
2007-10-10 21:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jaebaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says this cause she needs time to feel the outside of a relationship and being with her for 5 yrs says that she just needs to just explore for awhile. If she is saying that she does not want to lose you in her life then she still wants to be with you, but just give her some space for now. I have known couples that have been away from eachother and get back together and eventually get married and have kids, for what its worth.
2007-10-10 20:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Top Flight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Right now, she doesn't want you, she wants a safety net. That's why she says that she doesn't want to lose you. You're the safe backup in case what (who) ever else she's doing doesn't work out.
Tell her that it's been great and you've enjoyed being with her, but you aren't interested in being a "maybe" boyfriend.
2007-10-10 20:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess just give her some time, cause she still wants you... just get back together later when she knows what she wants to do with her life... but dont forget her....
2007-10-10 20:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋