Ok well i have a friend that seriously has issues or something does random stuff and gets in trouble alot i cant get this friend to stop being my friend like either i'm friends with them and i have to worry bout getting in trouble when im with them or anyhting like that [Don't want to be their friend] and if i tell them i don't want to be their friend they will make stuff up about me get me in trouble with liek the cops and stuff for things i didnt even do and even when im with them they have gotten us both in trobule with the cops for stealing and all that and i'm afraid that next time they get in trobule if im with them ill get in trouble to and if i stop being theyre friend i get in trouble for that to i dont knwo what to do i'm going so insane it makes me sick to my stomach so bad please help even tonight one of my friends friends called my friend and said that i said something nasty about their dad and them and my friends mom called me and threatened to call the cops
2007-10-10 12:56:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and idk now i have to worry bout them callign the cops liek i caleld back and she was like we r cool and stuff but still my friend was like i think i know what she was talking about which idk wtf her frind is talking about and i have to worry bout that and IDK WHAT TO DO SERIOUSLY i want to throw up so bad it makes me feel so sick jsut thinking about the things my " Friend " has done to me and ughh idk what to do
2007-10-10 12:58:49 · update #1
Just tell your parents what he is doing to you and they should be able to help you out. If your parents don't care then go to your grandparents, school counselor, teacher, anyone who is an adult. They will know exactly what to do.
2007-10-10 13:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by cafeconle 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others you need to speak to a school counselor and your parents and the police and get a restraining order against this person and then YOU need to stay away from them because if YOU go around them then YOU will be in trouble. Some people here were making fun of your spelling perhaps you were at school and in a hurry this way you can slow down and pay attention to you studies and work on your typing skills. It will be safer for you in the long run if you do it the right way and talk to your parents and get this person off your back.
2007-10-10 13:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by teresa m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok you have 2 choices here: stay with the people you don't want to hang with and get yourself in huge trouble not only with the cops but with your parents or you can say hey, Im not big on the whole juvy detention idea... so I think I will pass. Oh and the mom that called you with the threat of the cops... I wouldn't worry about it because you would have to have done something wrong in order to get busted.... if she can't prove anything, your good. Also its really hard to prove crap thats said verbally with out hard proof of what the judicial system calls evidence... if it is based on he said she said crap... that is called hearsay and it wont hold up in court. So, if anyone threatens to call the cops on you for something you KNOW you didn't do... take a deep breath, smile and say Great, would you like me to look the number up for you? That will shut them up... and if not... just hang the phone up. Also a word of advise please tell your parents what is going on, so incase you get a cop knocking on your door they have a clue as to why. Good luck and stay away from the future Jail birds.
2007-10-10 13:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Katie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go to the police and tell them what the friends doing and that you have no contact with them anymore. Talk to a detective and be honest about prior trouble and let them know that you are not responsible for the other persons actions. It is a good thing to have a parent take you, and help explain their knowledge of events too. The police will be much more understanding with the problem with the friend trying to get you in trouble, if they are informed of the problem first.
2007-10-10 13:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me if they are getting you in trouble. Stay away from them and keep yourself out of trouble. Tell your parents what is going on and get them to help you out by covering for you when this person calls your house. "Oh I'm sorry they are not home right now" As for the cops they won't do anything without evidence or else they will be breaking the law. Anything you get in trouble for has to have evidence linking you to the crime if there isn't any then don't worry about it.
2007-10-10 13:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here are two simple answers.
- Talk to a parent or brother/sister.
- Talk to a school teacher/counselor.
For one thing, if they told the cops you stole something. One a kid isn't much proof, and they'd do nothing. Now about the Mom calling, that's a bit more bad. If the Mom calls the Police about you, you'd probably be put under small interrogation if anything. The Police wouldn't be able to do much from just an eye witness that they couldn't believe or trust in anyway. So they'd most likely look for the stolen item and look for your finger prints on it. If those "friends" try to get you to touch an object they have, don't do so. If they're smart enough the could be trying to get fingerprints on it to frame you for one thing. Well that's just one thing in that situation.
That definitely is a hard situation. You could try to stick up for yourself, bring someone into it with you to help you out. Or just have your parents talk to their parents, which could help out a bit.
Well I hope that was better then nothing.
2007-10-10 13:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jethro 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ohh, that stinks. Start avoiding them. Change your number. Dont the cops have to have evidence you stole something? Yeah, my sister is Drama Central and we have dealt with the cops so many times, they are now like, are best friends, literally. Stand up to them, and if they do something like make a hate site or spread rumors about you, what do you do? Lets think:
Tell your parents: Well, as good as that sounds, it only solves a LITTLE bit of the problem. Parents cant force those kids to leave you alone, unless they call the parents of those kids. Or you can have your Mom tell them off...Thats what my Mom did...lol
Tell the principal: Yes!! This is the answer. My sister dealt with like 4 girls in 5th grade who made a hate website about her for no reason. She told the principal, and he said she could suspend them if she wanted. BUT only use this option if they start making websites about you and picking on you a lot. Besides that, tell your parents.
Oh, and dont hang with losers. Find better people to hang with. Like people that have an education and will one day go far.
2007-10-10 13:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Coconut Crazy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your parents about this friend who is not really a friend.This way your parents have the heads up about what is going on.Try to have your parents talk to a school official about this person this way you start having back up.You need to be ahead of the game that this girl is playing.Have your parents go to the police,tell them everything that is going on and file a complaint,this way they will have it on record where you went in to complain about this girl.
Once you talk to your parents they can help you find a solution.
My daughter went threw the same thing,it was a tough year but with a few good friends and the help of the police and school officials we were able to stop this girl from ruining this school year.Good luck...I got your back if you need me....
2007-10-10 13:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by hiddensecretangel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not doing anything wrong, then don't worry about your "friend" calling the cops on you. The police will investigate it and they'll find that your friend filed a false police report and he/she will get in trouble instead of you. Have you explained what's going on to your parents? If they know what's going on, they can help you fight. The main thing is, you need to get away from this "friend" before he/she drags you any deeper. Don't call him/her, don't go see him/her, don't accept phone calls from him/her. Avoid him/her at any possible cost. Eventually this friend will get the point and back off.
Good luck!
2007-10-10 13:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by awatchme 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry your going through this! i understand what i tough situation this is. just to put it in perspective im a 19 yr old college student who has had more then her fair share of trouble making friends even though ive a rule follower.
You need to stop talking to this person. I think you should also talk to your parents, even if you dont think they will understand. By telling them they will make it harder for you to hang out with this person eventually cutting them off. This also gives you some standing ground if your "friend" decides you involve you with the cops as your parents will be aware and will side with you. hope this helps! good luck!
2007-10-10 13:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if someone threatens to call the cops for something you did you can always denie it .its your word against theres and if you both did something, that other person will be guilty also .if any one else calls you tell them that you dont rat people out ,and you dont talk to snitches .tell them that you dont like people who gossip and that anyone who does shouldnt call you any more.the mother who called you cant call the cops unless she heard it from your mouth.dont be afraid you cant get in trouble for not being there. to loose a friend tell them you are busy everytime you see them eventually they will get the hint. your story is kind of hard to understand !rewrite it !!! hope this helps.
2007-10-10 13:12:18 · answer #11 · answered by knobulation 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋