i had an abortion 2 months ago i was on birth control and still got preg. i already have a 2 yr old. i am a sigle mother n i know i cant hadle a lil baby rite know.. i am so alone and confused.... i dont want to go threw the pregnacy just to give away my baby tho.. how concited is that?? will another abortion hurt my body?
2007-10-10 12:32:37 · 18 answers · asked by qtwitabooty003 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Have you tried abstinence LOL!!!
2007-10-10 12:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Call your dr. They are the only ones that can tell you for sure. I have heard if you have so many you can hurt your reproductive system and not be able to have kids in the future. Then I recommend a few things.
Talk to a counselor about the effects it's going to have on you physically and emotionally. You say you are alone and scared sounds like you need some assistance with that b/c you are never alone anymore. You have a 2 year old that depends on you and looks up to you. Always remember that.
Then I would definately practice abstinance for a while. B/c right after you go thru a procedure like that you are more likely to be come prego. You may also want to consider another form of birth control, the pill doesn't work for everyone. Maybe you should look into an IUD or something else that will work better for you. The pills don't necessarily work for everyone. And you have to make sure you take it at the same time everyday! But call your dr and talk to them. And tell them when you call to make the apt. that you may need some extra time. Dr's are busy, and if the dr is extremely busy some have a Practitioner that you can see that is able to spend more time with you.
Take care.
2007-10-10 19:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sucking out a living growing organism out of your uterus cant be a good thing for your body at any time..and no I am not going to give you the abortion is wrong lecture but I will give you the prevention lecture..yes i know it's too late to say that now but you might want to consider doubly protecting yourself next time(i.e the pill and a condom) or perhaps getting your tubes tied. Being a single mom can be a ***** but think about adoption yeah it is very hard but you are blessing an otherwise childless couple. But to sum it up keeping the baby and raising it is hard but it can be done. I hope you do the right thing for you and your family. Take care.
2007-10-10 19:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personal experience here. I got pregnant at 17 had my little girl at 18 years of age. I started dating a guy when my girl was 9 months old, and i got pregnant. I was fully ready to take on this child too because it was my screw up, and then to find out that the guy i had been seeing had never broke up with his girlfriend before, and i got so much hurrasment from his girlfriend, and him, and his family that i did go ahead with the abortion, and to this day i hate it. Knowing that my little girl could have had a brother or sister. And when i DID find a wonderful man that i have been with for over 3 years, and pregnant with my second child i was so scared that i could not get pregnant. We tried, and tried, but nothing happend. But finally it did, and i'm 29 weeks with our baby girl sophia. I'm not here to judge, because i have done the same, but i would advise some major thinking on it, and speak to your doc as well.
2007-10-10 19:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by hollyberries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from about not being able to give the baby up. I would not be able to do it. As for he abortion, I don't think it will harm your body in any way. But I would think about a different form of birth control after. Maybe try the IUD or something. Also, if you are going to have sex, make sure the guy wears a condom, that will hrlp cutting your chances of getting pregnant again.
2007-10-10 19:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by blebert2002 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Oh how rotten! You already had one abortion and you still insist in having unprotected sex, and being single at that? What the hell is wrong with you? I should say another abortion would hurt the body, but it SHOULD have hurt your damn conscience during the first one. I swear, some people!
And for the "i dont want to go threw the pregnacy just to give away my baby tho.. how concited is that??" You are being very conceited at just the idea of getting rid of it! There are alot of people who can't even Conceive children! So their only option is taking in the children that others can't or won't take care of! Why don't you be a little less conceited and think of them before destroying the little life inside you, and possibly your body?
2007-10-10 19:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by LadyBug 2 · 7⤊ 4⤋
I'm really sorry you had to make that decision. I've been down that road myself. You made the decision that is right for you. don't let anyone tell you differently. Medically another abortion is not good for you but I personally don't thing it is as horrible as the average person will tell you. I got pregnant after 2 of them, hands down. Remember everyone is different.
2007-10-10 19:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The more abortions you have, the greater the risks.
I hope this is a powerful learning experience for you so you don't make the same mistakes in the future.
2007-10-10 19:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Possibly.
If you DO get another abortion, I highly suggest you practice abstinence for awhile, especially since you're a single mother who claims she's alone and confused.
2007-10-10 19:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
im sorry what you are going through but seriously a lot of woman are just going to talk bad to you just for posting this question. I dont know what to tell you about having abortions so close to each other. I would ask you ob and see what she says. Good Luck!
2007-10-10 19:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by lizgas 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes, another abortion can terribly hurt your body and make it so you can not have another child. Maybe you should try not having sex?
2007-10-10 19:42:11 · answer #11 · answered by Melie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋