A friend of mine has a 18 y.o. boy who just started college... It happens to be one of those "gynoversities" where they have tons of resources to help women to deal with rape issues (which is an excellent idea btw) but no resources for guys how not to become a victim of a false accusation. So I told him to buy a camcorder and record all of his sexual encounters because who knows when he's gonna need proof in court. I taught him how to hide it in the bedroom, make it silent, etc. His dad, (my friend) thought I am teaching him to make porn, but I convinced him its a necessity dictated by modern life... I personally have everything recorded (brings back fond memories)... What do you think?
2007-10-10 12:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Rio, I am superserious about this!
2007-10-10 13:16:27 · update #1
i think you should upload some of the videos! lol
2007-10-10 13:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're serious about this at all. Nonetheless, it's NOT a good idea. If word gets out about this — something you just can't risk — he'll be attacked for a non-consensual sexual activity other than rape. Just advise him not to sleep with a woman unless he's 100% sure that she's into it, and keep his encounters few and far between.
2007-10-10 13:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Terrible idea, honestly.
Tell him instead to contact his SGA representatives (or whatever they call it there) and ask them to have the university start allocating more resources for young men and to have seminars for males on how to avoid false rape allegations. Also, they could have seminars for the women on how immature and vile it is to lie about rape, and how it can ruin a man's life forever.
2007-10-10 13:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously, you have a good intention in mind but your methods are, outrageous. You are invading someone else's privacy, betraying an individual at their vulnerable moment, in your quest to proof yourself or your friend from a false accusation of rape. Before we get into what exactly is outrageous about your methods, let me tell you that if a false rape accusation does occur and you produce those tapes, YOU will be charged for violation of an individual's privacy. I know LOTS of men who have never been falsely accused of rape. The way to go about it is to associate with credible women. In other words, if you run into someone who tells random lies, that is a red flag of what their potential is. The other way to protect yourself from being falsely accused is direct, honest, clear communication when you are with this credible female. That is what you have to do.
Taping someone at their most vulnerable moment, naked and without their consent is against the law and if you are trying to keep yourself from jail then that's the wrong way to go
2007-10-10 12:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by uz 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That's great Ronnie - just fu*king great! Just make sure you tell the poor bastard to make enough money and put it in an offshore account so that when these tapes come out (cause he's drunk and feels like sharing one night), he's got enough money and a place to move to so the women won't make him work for them for the rest of his life.
2007-10-10 15:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Fex 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I have a better idea, which is not hard in your case. Have him TELL his dates he will be recording them but not actually do it. No invasion of privacy and dates get the message not to file any false reports. And he will learn which girls really, really like him. Of course, he may get slapped more, and he may not get laid as often, but that's not as important as protecting the girls' privacy and his reputation. Then again, if he's a rapist, his reputation won't matter.
2007-10-10 13:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahaha! Make sure those videos never apear on online or those women will sue the pants off of your friend *wink*
2007-10-10 12:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by MonDragon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's most likely illegal.
But, sad be the days when this is necessary....
The consensual sex contract. Funny vid, check it out.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-gu6s0eGOk
2007-10-10 13:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty sure that's illegal & you both could get into more trouble than for a false allegation. grow up.
how about talking to him about being a mature adult & having sex only in a committed relationship? that would be MUCH better advice all around.
2007-10-10 12:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
You cannot tape that without the other persons knowledge.
2007-10-10 20:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋