would it bother you? my son is 15 years old she is 2 months pregnant and informed us all she is anming her child regardless of sex his name. I am extremely upset over this and cant believe my brother would allow it. She is 22 years old and she all the time flirts with my son, it got to the point i had to tell her if she did it again she was no longer welcome in my home. am i being petty because i dislike her?
2007-10-10 09:56:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i realize i dont on the name , its not a common everyday name, and i kknow she is doing it because my son, she flat out told him thats how i found out...its weird and uncalled for
2007-10-10 10:02:34 · update #1
own even ooops
2007-10-10 10:02:52 · update #2
trust me my son hates her , he begs me not to have her over because she corners him and tries to hug up on him, make a long story short she nearly got killed over it
2007-10-10 10:04:49 · update #3
the father of the baby is my brother
2007-10-10 10:05:30 · update #4
Absolutly not! Not only is it rude to use a family name like that is really dumb considering how many names there is in the world to choose from. I think she is crossing the line by flirting with your son. Is she not loyal to your brother and pregnant with his child? A 22 year old woman should not be flirting with a 15 year old boy. You have every right to ban her from your home and if your brother has a problem with it I would tell him too bad but that behaviour is very immature and inappropriate. Hopefully your brother will see what an idiot she is and tell her to stop (and think of another name too).
2007-10-10 10:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by corriegirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ordinarily it should not be a big deal for her to name the child the same as there is a 15 year age difference. But based on what you told us, she is an idiot, to put things bluntly.
Is she doing this to provoke you or your husband or son or a combination?
Is there anyone she respects in your family that can act as a go between? How well do you get along with your brother? She acts very strange, but you can not stop her from naming her child any name she wants. Best of luck to you all.
Hey, try to get her on the Springer show if you can get her away from her trailer home.
2007-10-10 17:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason you are upset isn't because of the name (if you loved her you would be flattered) but because of her foul behaviour to your son - choosing the name is an act of immature defiance against you. I'm sure she knows it pisses you off, and she is getting satisfaction from that.
That's the part that would bother me, not the name itself. And I think that's the part that bothers you as well.
Could you speak to your brother about her behaviour? I really don't think you should let her have contact with your family, to be honest. She sounds like trouble.
PS Buy a pet snake or rat and name it after HER.
2007-10-10 17:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't I read in another answer that you are only 13? If I'm wrong, I'm sorry! This lady sounds like a sick b*tch!! I would definitely talk to your brother if I were you! Tell him about her wrong feelings towards your son, his nephew, and see what he has to say about that!! If all else fails tell your parents about what has been going on or set up a video camera to catch her in the act of flirting. That $hit has to stop!! Good luck!!
2007-10-10 17:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am torn on this one. I see your point, and would want my child to be the only one in his generation with his name...
But, what would you do if someone told you that you could not name your child the name of your choosing?
I would opt for family harmony on this one. I wouldn't want to be the one to cause a family rift. Let her have the name. Maybe she'll change her mind in the next 7 months.
2007-10-10 17:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whaaat? That is very weird. Sounds like she has a crush on your son. Yes I would be peeved. Maybe it would help if your son asked her not to do that...He wants to be the only one with that name in the family. She might listen to him.
Good luck....families can be such a hassle.
2007-10-10 17:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by bluebyou 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It would really bother me. How confusing for the family!
Here's my problem: she flirts with your son. Is it your son's baby? Maybe she wants to call the baby "Joe Junior."
I'd ask a lot of questions of your son and then have her arrested for statutory rape.
2007-10-10 17:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by backwardsinheels 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not petty at all. That would make me mad as heck. She is way to old to be flirting with a 15 year old...has she lost her mind? Hopefully, she will change her mind about it.
2007-10-10 17:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That seems kind of shallow. Unless it is some kind of unique made up name, you don't have any ownership rights to it. Just be flattered that someone else likes the name enough to give it to their own child.
2007-10-10 17:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being petty. she is 22 and flirts with your son? and now wants to name her kid his name? sounds like she might be a little crazy.
2007-10-10 17:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋