my girlfriend broke up with me for another guy i am still in high school im 17 and we have our homecoming dance coming up this saturday. He knew b/f goes to a different school so she has to fill out paper work in order to bring him. i dont want him to be there b/c of what has happened it has really pissed me off and it is my school homecoming im a senior and she is a sophmore i dont want this last homecoming to be ruined b/c of the two of them. i could tell her not to bring him and she would listen to me but it would also ruin our friendship. she also has not been able to turn in the paper work yet so i could take the paperwork from her and she would not be able to get a new copy before the dance so she wouldnt be able to bring him. would that be an alright thing to do?
2007-10-10 07:34:53 · 28 answers · asked by chunkx1200 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't do that, you will be a loser in the end. Just ignore them, be strong dude. You can conquer your feelings, move on and enjoy the homecoming with your friends. You can't control them but you can control yourself. Keep the cool, chill! i know you can do it.
2007-10-10 07:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Code 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No -- let them live in their own worlds-- and let YOUR world include compassion, tolerance and ENJOYMENT of your Prom. You DO NOT have the right to tear up her papers.
I'm sorry she broke up with you -- but THESE THINGS HAPPEN day in and day out-- how YOU deal with them is the most important thing. Your emotions may come into play when or if you see them, but somethimes the anticipation of an event brings more grief than the actual event itself.
This "stuff" is what happens to most of us as we go thru life -- be a champ and look forward to YOUR Homecoming without hurting the others involved. They too, are learning how to cope with life-- maybe they are a bit behind you -- but that's not for you to decide and DEFINITELy not for you to involve yourself with.
What can YOU do to prepare for the Homecoming? Can you help out with decorating the place? Printing or distributing invitations?
Think of POSITIVE things to do and -- NEVER hurt another person, no matter how mean you think they may be to you.
And, one or both of these people may come back into your life as you get older-- how well you interact with them NOW may make a HUGE difference in the future.
2007-10-10 14:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by aattura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise to you is to move on. The only thing in life that's guaranteed is death, but here's something close to guaranteed; you'll fall in love again and this will become a laughable distant memory. You might want to reconsider keeping as a "friend" someone who not only hurt you, but wants to demonstrate the fact in a public setting by bringing the "other guy" to your social function. Let her do what she wants and if I were you I'd bring the hottest date I could find to the homecoming and act like she's the only girl on earth. Good luck to you my friend.
2007-10-10 14:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by 428 Moore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that you'll later regret. Taking the paperwork from her is not going to change the fact that it's over between the two of you. You don't want to make her miserable. Is staying friends with her worth the heartache of seeing her and her new bf together? I think it would be best to go to the dance with your friends and enjoy it. Enjoy the dance and don't let thoughts of her, or seeing her interfere with the fun you'll be having. I know the heartache will still be there, but that's okay, you'll eventually accept it and move on.
2007-10-10 14:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by plentyofmoxie84 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to go with. Let her do whatever, she's an ex, right? She broke up with you for that guy! Leave her alone. It would be immature of you to take the paperwork from her. Just get some other girl to go with you, and have fun!
2007-10-10 14:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, just tell her that it would make you uncoumfortable if she brought him to the dance. If she is your friend then she will not bring him. If she brings him anyway, then write her off as a friend. You also need to realize, this is highschool and you are a senior. Most of your highschool friends will be gone in a year.
2007-10-10 14:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She don't want to be with you...get it??? Stop whining and go get someone else. The best way to deal with it is to act like you don't care. Life is too short for this. Believe me. I was there once and guess what several years later I see this lady that jilted me and am I glad now I am not obligated to her now. All things happen for a reason. Relax in it and go with the flow. You will be happier down the road.
2007-10-10 14:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,don't steal the package.You have to face life as it is....nobody said it was easy.Just ignore her and her new guy as much as you can .It wont work out anyway,because she is in a rebound relationship,and she probably wants to make you jealous anyway.Please,its not worth the drama,look at what happened in Crandon,WI. this past week!!Be the big guy,and ignore the whole thing,it will show that 'your a better man'.
2007-10-10 14:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by debi jean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a very deseptive thing to do. You are probably outraged she moved on so fast. But you don't need to restort to any derastic cruel tricks. just let it be. Maybe if your lucky he will dissappoint her some day and she will come running back to you. let her know your there for her and still want to be friends. you might just have to get over her. Stuff happens, sorry.
2007-10-10 14:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bro, you can't stop the process. If you ask her not to do it, it will end up worse for you. However you can still sabotage the event. You can trip him on the dance floor, put a kick me sign on his back, or do whatever to make him look like an idiot.
2007-10-10 14:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Colonia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋