I realize that in the past I was overconfident and ambitious and as a result people would be very very mean to me in any way. How do I now feel confident, but not get people to hate me?
2007-10-10 07:20:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
A good conversationalist knows that part of the art is making the other person feel that they can have a lot of interesting things to say. If you make other people feel that it's always about you and your brilliance, they lose interest and then get mean with you. The best coaches and leaders bring out the best in other people, so why don't you do the same, and don't brag about how well you did that. Use your abilities to help let others shine.
2007-10-10 07:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Scythian1950 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By doing something you enjoy and feel you are good at, helps build new competencies. You are saying to yourself that the anxiety path is not one you want to travel down anymore and that you will put your focus elsewhere.
The more time you give to following these rewarding pursuits, the easier it is for your body to relax and return to a natural state of peace.
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2014-08-14 23:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you talk to them, make an effort to make the other person feel comfortable in the conversation. You can achieve this by listening as well as speaking, not interrupting, and not talking down to them. Compliments are also a nice way to make other people feel better, but make sure the compliments are genuine and not compliments for the sake of compliments.
2007-10-10 07:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Heart of Fire 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Compliment them on things other than their looks if their female, things about character and personality that you really enjoy about them. And genuinely mean the compliments you give. Otherwise do nice things for them that they don't have to do or that other people are too embarassed to do. Don't worry about people taking advantage of you because it'll be easy to assert yourself when you're comfortable with yourself. It's easy to say no, when you have other purpose than what they're trying to get you to do.
2007-10-10 07:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them the truth
2007-10-10 07:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Carolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋