I recently found out that my best friend is a double-sided jerk off and that's made me alot more self-concious and anti-social. It has affected my confidence and ability to have a lot of (if any) social interaction. My other friends are noticing and I've even shut myself away from them. Does anyone have any advice?
2007-10-10 05:40:28 · 5 answers · asked by Caleb B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like your trust has been shattered.
In order to regain trust it is going to time.
You need to accept that everyone is an individual and just because one friend has done the dirty on you it doesn't mean they all will. Certainly, some will, but by far the majority of people won't.
2007-10-10 06:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Louise H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and open up to one or two people. If you are struggling to interact with big groups of people, try taking things a step at a time - talk to one person at a time, then two or three when your confidence is up. Not everyone is like your freind. Good luck!
2007-10-10 13:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Toria D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club that your interested in. Start talking to new people and see if you could make new friends.
2007-10-10 12:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You depending on what others think of you in connection with your friend. Is something wrong with this picture? I have lot of friends who are nuts why would people think less of me for what they do? You live your life, he lives his. Why does what he is be a refection on you? You are two people be yourself.
2007-10-10 22:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my say is that u try to get over that stuff u had with your best-friend......let the past go by and its best that it doesn't adversely affect your life........if u cannot overcome it, then i must say that u are in a very serious state.......okay? hope that helps....i leave the rest to you.......
2007-10-10 12:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by william_anubis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋