There is a female that always rolls her eyes at me or makes a nasty face when I walk into the room for our organization meeting. When i have to talk to her she speaks to me as if she has a problem with me. She has two friends that did the same thing to me, but I make a comment to another member a loud that God dose not like people who are ugly inside. The two friends are nice now, however the main girl is still with here childish ways . i have asked her two time if she has a problem with me and she said no.
2007-10-10 05:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by Black Beauty™ 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
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2007-10-10 05:32:35 · update #1
Ignore her is what i want to do, however im the Vice President of the Organization and i have to talk to all the members.We are college students so i would guess she is in her 20's
2007-10-10 05:51:36 · update #2
This girl sounds like a coworker(or 2, or 3) that I worked with at one of my restaurant jobs in the past.
I can relate to the part where you asked the girl if she had a problem and she said no...that's exactly what this girl did. She would snicker and start laughing every time she was in my presence(even if I was there first!), and one time when I asked her in a slightly amused voice "What's so funny? Did I miss the joke?" she said in a rather overdefensive tone, "I'm only laughing at the funny antics my friend is doing over there." (Well then, why feel the need to act defensive if I never actually accused her of laughing 'at' me?? Shows that she is guilty)
I do not think that asking her what the problem is will solve anything...since she reminds me of my ex-coworker, she'll probably just continue to say no or claim that "if I have a problem, I'd say it to your face" but then go back to talking behind your back(that's what happened to me). I'd suggest skipping the inquiry...instead, directly confront her and say that she is being immature.
After that, I'd avoid being friendly to her...you'd only be wasting your time and friendliness. If anything, being overly friendly to a "waste" might actually instigate her to keep acting the way she's acting, because then she'll see that she can get away with it and you'll still be a pushover. I'd recommend ignoring her and giving a slight cold shoulder(but if asked to collaborate on a work task, act cordial and professional).
2007-10-10 05:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that she does have a problem. If you have approached her and asked her what it is and if she has not given an explanation, then you have done all you can do about it and the rest is up to her. try to ignore her behavior as much as possible and tell yourself that it is "her problem" and not yours. Keep telling yourself positive, rational comments like, "I am ok. It is she with the problem," to help you ignore her.
2007-10-10 12:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is jealousy of the worst extreme and there really is nothing you can do about it. Simply let her strange behavior roll off you, since she is looking for a response and certainly has things dreamed up to say or do if this does happen.
2007-10-10 12:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have obviously set her alarm off!
Maybe you have wronged her unknowingly or something like that.
Or It could be borne out of animosity!
A rumour attimes could be detrimental. Maybe she had unwittingly caught a rumour about you which triggered such a behaviour.
But since she says you have done nothing wrong to her. It best you let the matter rest and continue to be your cheerful self towards her.Then I believe you will watch her attitude towards you change also.
wishing you the best.
2007-10-10 17:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Freeman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls act petty for many reasons, she just might feel insecure around u or there's supm she doesn't like bout u. if u know u haven't done anything, let her carry on. maybe she continues cuz u acknowledge it n pay her attention. ignore her n c if it stops.
2007-10-10 12:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her as much as you possibly can.......She is childish and you shouldn't let her get to you.............You, from your wording here, already know she's childish so that should be enough for you to let it roll off your back........Don't fret over it, it's definitely not worth it.............CAT
2007-10-10 13:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has issues that have nothing to do with you. Let her ice roll off your back. She's not worth your worry.
2007-10-10 12:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and hang out with more mature, well-rounded people... like me!! :)
2007-10-10 12:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like an unhappy person for some reason-dont take it personal, just wish her well
2007-10-10 12:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by j dddddd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you dont appreciate being treated that way. Tell her its very immature.
2007-10-10 12:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by bamisasexybeast_92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋