I told my man that there was a possibilty that I might be pregnant. We discussed the situation and the pros and cons of the situation. I took the test and I came out negative and he got all mad at me. I told him we can try again but he says he wants a baby now. I'm going to obgyn to see what is wrong. I have a fear that I can't concieve children and my man isn't talking to me for me to discuss this situation with.
2007-10-10 04:37:19 · 19 answers · asked by ~Crazy N Luv~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Was your boyfriend breaking up with you so you told him you might be pregnant or were you guys fine in your relationship and then you brought it up that you thought you were pregnant.
You might mention to him that even if he leaves you and starts another relationship with another woman he won't get his baby "now" like he wants it. So he might as well stay with you and you guys can try again...if you are BOTH ready.
Unless he has another woman pregnant...that baby isn't going to come for a while anyways.
2007-10-10 04:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok I am sorry to say this but you need to find a new man. If he can't be supportive through all of this you deserve better. What is he thinking???? Just the stress of his behavior can keep you from getting pregnant. Our body has so much more to do than the man. The contribute three minutes and our body spends 9 months pregnant. Wow!!! Very sad!!!!!
2007-10-10 05:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by copswife93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he is upset because you are not pregnant?! NO NO NO, that is not fair!! It is not all up to you! Maybe he has a low sperm count or some other issue. It is a 50/50 thing. Try for about a year on teh right days and if you do not succeed then you can start doing tests and have his semen analized. Im glad to see you are going to the Obgyn. It is always good. Have yourself checked out and tell him/her you are wanting to conceive and they must check if everything is OK! I wish you all the best!
2007-10-10 04:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy shiot. Why are you in this situation?
If he loved you he wouldnt be an asss about this. Why would you WANT to make babies with someone like that? Have some common sense, you're talking about a whole nother independent innocent life here, not just what makes him happy, or makes you happy.
yeesh. Does ANYONE think beyond themselves and about the child anymore?
2007-10-10 04:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What??????????? I can't even imagine!! How does he not know that it is him? Why is this only YOUR problem???? Instead of stressing yourself to conceive, I'd tell him to go take a hike! You two should be in this together, regardless of what issues there may be and who is having the issues.
I have PCOS, and my husband has very healthy sperm. We're trying so hard to conceive, but he never makes me feel bad or gets angry at me, and if he did i think we would end up in divorce court over it!!
2007-10-10 04:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your man is the one with the problem, if he is refusing to talk to you because nature has not succeeded in giving you a pregnancy at this time how would he behave with a real problem that needs proper solutions, you need to consider if y ou really want to have a child with a person so shallow ans naive, tell him to get pregnant with all that you are going to have to suffer in the process, it is not a quick fix for anything and wanting a baby NOW is not going to happen, he will still have to wait on gestation, he needs to wise up and get a grip on himself
2007-10-10 04:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by singlestrike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I tried for 4 yaers and we stuck together! We found out that his sperm was the problem and that I was totally healthy! Don't sweat it, find a new man, fall in love get married and then start a family!
2007-10-10 04:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Born Country 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk to me. And hon maybe there a reason why you are not getting pregnant by him. If he don't want to holla at cha f**** him and move and do you. If your going to have a child by someone you want to make sure that they are there for you. And it sounds like he is in it for himself and you don't need someone like to be your baby daddy trust me save yourself the heart ache.
2007-10-10 05:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jackquellyn w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he stamping his feet, throwing himself on the floor, and screaming? Because he sounds like he is a two year old throwing a temper tantrum. This man is not father material. Do not have a child with him.
2007-10-10 04:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
um sorry to sound critical but your man doesnt sound very supportive ,do you really want to have a baby with someone that gets all mad cos your preg test was negative i think you could find someone better to have a family with.x
2007-10-10 04:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by twinkle78 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋