How can I last longer during sex? I have had sex plenty of times, but my stamina isnt the best? Any help?
2007-10-10 02:12:04 · 9 answers · asked by lover_69 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i guess jus keep doin it--had any complaints?
2007-10-10 02:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One tried and true method is when you have a pretty good idea your going to be having sex, spend some time in the shower and take care of yourself prior. This will extend your next "O" and allow you to spend more time focusing on her needs/pleasure. Mental diversion is also key, sounds campy but it does work, but you will need practice. The key is to work on the delivery together with your partner with understanding. Over time and practice you can begin to see a difference. Creams and ointments help, but tend to break up the moment and again if your with a monogamous partner, it can be helpful in your training. Otherwise, its Practice , Practice, Practice, I'm sure you will be able to endure the training. Good luck.
2016-05-20 22:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about taxes, root canals, baseball. Think about anything besides what you are doing. I am not a guy, but I heard this works. My suggestion would to take more time during foreplay with the woman you are with. Wait until she has reached climax then have sex. Women don't care how long you last. They just want to reach orgasm like you do.
2007-10-10 02:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Q 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They are many different methods. Here are a few:
1. SSRI Antidepressants
2. Hypnosis
3. Natural Supplements
4. Local anesthetics
You can find details of each and everyone of them at http://www.cureprematureejaculation.org
2007-10-10 03:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-17 13:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-29 06:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel it coming on, squeeze the base with your thumb and forefinger and slow down. or you can just come out everytime you feel the sensation.
2007-10-10 02:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by sexyred1129 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need lots of practice.
2007-10-10 02:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are also desensitizing cremes.
2007-10-10 02:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋