I have pcos and I am ttc#1 for 5 years now, I am getting so tire of people making a big thing out of ttc#2,3,4 what the heck you should be happy you made atleast one, having pcos isn't the best thing in the world, I am tire of people saying ow count 14 days after your last period and start BDing, or your AF comes every 25-35 days, its a bunch of lies, I have cycts on both of my ovaries and only miracle I'm asking for is for the stupid cycts to go away so a blessing can come along, I am taking metformin and clomid, it is frustrating me, any ladies out there tire of taking all these meds that isn't working, tire of people making a big issue on ttc#2,3,4 tire of the count 14 days and start BDing?
I am feeling down now, all of my friends are pregnant, and family members, its really getting to me now
2007-10-10 02:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I'm sorry that you are feeling down. I know what you are going through. While I didn't have PCOS, I had only one ovary and one tube (and it was scarred). I was told that I would never have kids, but I beat the odds and ended up having 3. I say this all because I don't want you to give up. I could give you the line that "it will happen when it happens" and all the other obligatory comments that people say to you. But, I won't. All I can say to you is to keep going and don't give up.
Its perfectly normal to have the feelings that you are having against your friends and family right now. Just try not to let it show too much when you are around them. It will end up hurting the relationship that you have with them. And, when its your turn to have a blessing in your tummy, you will want them there for you.
Please hang in there...okay? You will get your chance to shine and it will be an amazing event because of your struggles! I love telling my kids the stories about how they were never even supposed to be here, but God made it possible. If he did it for me, he will do it for you.
2007-10-10 02:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Slipped Halo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I don't have cysts on my ovaries and I havent been TTC for 5 years. I have been trying to conceive for almost a year now (just under 11 months) and I'm just about to take a round of Clomid (50mg taken on days 5-9 of your period) as you know.
I look at some of these questions about babies 2,3 and 4 and just want to cry!!!
I think "at least they have one baby, I would kill for one!" and at least they know it CAN happen for them!
I feel what you are going through.
One of my friends had ovarian cysts and had been TTC for almost 3 years. Then one month she got her husband to take a Zinc tablet every day, she took folic acid, used Pre Seed lubricant and drank a cup of green tea every day and she fell pregnant straight away.
Sorry - just clutching at straws for you.
I suppose you have already tried all that, sorry if it didn't help.
And while we are on the subject, I'll tell you something else that really gets me down!
13 and 14 year old teenagers getting knocked up behind the school bike shed then having a baby they don't want just to claim child tax benefit, when there are people like me and you and everyone else on here who have a loving home to offer a child.
Bloody world is unfair.
You are in my thoughts ... x
2007-10-10 02:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_steph27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Although I have not been trying as long as you have, it's just so frustrating. I also have cyst in one ovary, and another out of the ovary. Although my doctors have told me that they will not affect me... I am starting to believe they do :/. I don't care about counting 14 days after my last period nor do I care about AF coming every 25-35 days either... I just want to get pregnant. I even have friends who got pregnant and didn't want to go through with the pregnancy... I just wanted to smack them across the face. Sorry, I am frustrated. :(
2007-10-10 02:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by JJ52 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've only been TTC #1 for about two years, but I trully feel your emotions. It's so hard to want something so badly and then watch everyone else achieve that same dream so easily when you're having such a hard time. Life just isn't fair.
2007-10-10 03:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I to understand your pain, I am also ttc#1 and it has been a stuggle, I hope you get your dream child as soon as possible, lots of baby dust goes out to you
2007-10-10 02:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm d month wherein u experience ur AF is abt to reach any 2nd even nevertheless its a ways off thts d month whn it unquestionably does`nt arrive n wat u get is a favorable try....u r already 12 dpo its jst a 2 day watch for u until eventually u try on 14 dpo....sleep ur way out thrgh d 2 dayz...all d ultimate
2016-10-06 10:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you ... even though I have only been trying to conceive for a year and half. However everybody is in title to their concerns and questions anything they want. You got keep tryin'... that is all you can do. Don't give up...
2007-10-10 02:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by Elsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋