I told my friend I liked him, and then he told me he wanted to have sex with me.. but were only 13 in grade eight. I'm not ready to do anything like that.. But It's kinda awkward now. How can I make it so its cool again and not so awkward.?
2007-10-10 00:37:17 · 3 answers · asked by Hannah C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow hunny I am not sure you really can. If you are only 13 and this boy wants to do that already you need to make sure you are careful. Unfortunatly it might be time to find a new friend or if you want to try and stay friends with him you may just talk to him and let him know this made you uncomfortable, If he is really a friend he will understand. Hope this helps, just remember stick to how you feel and dont give in to him just because you like him, its not worth it.
2007-10-10 00:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer N 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look you both are way too young for sex. Just be yourself and be friends with him. The last thing you need is to be a mother at age 13. You have a life ahead of you, high school, college. You do not need to go down this road. The day when you marry then that is when the sex is so special.
2007-10-10 00:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him you don't want sex? Make sure that is crystal clear. And don't get too fussed if he decides to hang out with other girls, if he does, then his agenda is very different to yours.
Sweetheart, people change and want different things. You don't have to want what he wants, but you do have to accept the fact that he wants different things to you, and that this is very likely to change the relationship. What you have to do is keep your eye on what YOU want - or don't want.
The relationship has changed, unfortunately, and I think it's time to accept this and start making new friends. Once he gets the sex thing out of his system, it won't be looming over you both, causing awkwardness. Until then, just be a little distant.
2007-10-10 00:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋