I know the question is kinda crude but many gay tops like me have to deal with filthy bottom bf who after sex crap on the condom, this of course does not make for a great cuddle up period afterwards. I mean I love him and care about him but for "heavensakes" the guy needs to clean out or something, I can not keep doing this.I constantly have to clean up after him and remove the crap from my condom.I need some one to tell me if I am doing the right thing if I proceed to dump..(no pun intended) him. Please help me give me some advice.
Thanks
2007-10-10 00:30:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you are going to use the muck hole you are going to get the muck~~
2007-10-10 00:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Uh, rarely is anal sex as clean as portrayed in porn. The reason why you DON'T see fecal incidences in porn is because those guys engage in a LOT of flushing/cleaning. Hydrotherapy ("enemas") is a good idea for your partner if the poo issue is a problem, HOWEVER...enemas can be addicting as well as unbalance your partner's intestinal bacterial flora. Enemas are a 'rather aggressive' treatment, continued use of which may alter digestive processes and cycles.
If your partner DOES decide to use an enema, be sure to use either CLEAN water or a pre-mixed solution. Do NOT, under ANY circumstances, use a solution containing soap, mouthwash, alcohol, beer, wine, hard liquor, coffee, Kool-Aid or Jolt Cola. Introducing such chemicals into the rectum and lower intestine can affect the bacterial flora and/or be more readily absorbed into the bloodstream causing a toxicity reaction.
There are a number of websites available for useful information (Google "hydrotherapy" or "enema" with "risk," "how-to," or "colon health.") As with any medical procedure like an enema (YES, this qualifies as a medical procedure), it is advisable to speak with your physician about proper administration and possible side effects.
2007-10-10 01:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by HMFan 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lighten up on him. I'm a bottom and I have some suggestions. First, when do you initiate sex? Does your lover have time to clean out? Cleaning out is rather involved, I spend 24 hours at it. I fast starting the day before and consume only water. Then, about three or four hours before my lover comes over, I take a series of enemas, usually four or five, the middle ones being retention enemas for about 15 minutes each with either mineral oil or olive oil with the water.
The first and the last are quick cleansing enemas.
When my lover comes over I'm clean and lubed and ready for action.
Do you give your lover this much time? Does he have this much time?
Perhaps you could make some love play out of cleaning him out, you administer his enemas. Then when he is nice and clean, lube him up and proceed to the main course.
Here is a web site that may help you out, I get a lot of good tips from it.
2007-10-10 03:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hi dude. I'm not gay but I will try to contribute. I would do like a colon cleansing before the act. I have always suspected this is what people that are into that position do but I don't know as I have never performed that position on a girlfriend or anyone.
2016-05-20 22:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to http://chadzboyz.com/ it has a section on sex and these kinds of matters. I remember reading a technique your boyfriend can use to clean out as you say before sex. Its harmless and easy.
2007-10-10 05:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by rabbit1986 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, then maybe you two shouldn't engage in anal sex anymore. You could instead focus on oral stimulation, handjobs, mutual masturbation etc...
and if anal sex is really important, there's always enemas.
2007-10-10 00:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Wally 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
First of all.... you should expect that part of the body to be unkempt. after all... it is the end of the rectum. If you enjoy anal sex... you and your partner need to discuss him going to the bathroom first then he can wash off.
2007-10-10 01:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Use Female condoms instead.
2007-10-10 02:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What the heck are you doing-take it off after you pull out--are sleeping with the rubber on? And if your packing fudge dont complain about the byproducts.
2007-10-10 00:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by stevemxusa 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I would casually mention it to your partner, or even buy him an enema as a hint
2007-10-10 02:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ew, thats just grose, i would dump him because thats just trampy and just UHH! or just tell him the way you feel about it and if hes understanding and really likes you then he will solve the problem.
2007-10-10 00:34:24 · answer #11 · answered by fitjess.yhbaby 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋