i'm 21 weeks pregnant and oh my god so uncomrtable. this will be my first child and i'm so excited to be having a baby but pregnancy is kicking my butt! lol i feel like a water bufflo lol and i have this rash on my legs and it itches like hell and even tho the doctor told me wat over the creme to put on it i still have no relief i'm allergic to sumthing thats making me break out ( i think i'm allergic to pregnancy) lol my feet hurt when i been off them for awhile my sexlife as dang near stopped lol i'm feeling frisky but my kitty doesnt wanna keep up lol its like being hungry and my mouth wont chew lol i got stretch marks in places i didnt know i had even i tho i use cocoa butter. i have jumped from a d cup to an e cup and still growing and i'm wondering if they will go back down to a d cup afterwards? the baby stomping my bladder in lol i love my baby but got damn is pregnancy suppose to be this bad? i hate being pregnant even tho every1 says i should be am i bad for feeling like that
2007-10-09 18:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i have never said anything about wanting to abort my baby are u sick? me and my husband tried for this baby and got it on the first try. i asked questions about others people opinion on abortion but i didnt say i was going to get one. i just wanted some feedback on a question i was wanting ask people that are against abortion thats all. a girl online was asking if she should get an abortion and people just enforced their opinions instead of actually helping her and referring her to the proper people to help her on that topic not be looking online. i'm pro-choice and i just wanted to hear the other sides reasons for their opinion and since i asked i understand how they feel and agree with sum parts. so dont be so judgemental its not healthy.
2007-10-10 06:49:47 · update #1
take a breathe, now the stretch marks will get worse if you scratch because you are actually helping it stretch then, use cocoa butter lotions, or utter cream... it really hydrates, or try some body oild that hydrate and sooth... and with my first pregnancy I wished it was over, then I learned with my second pregnancy I wanted to say I wish it was over (but I looked back at my first and I actually loved being pregnant you will basically put all the bad parts in the back of your mind and miss the feeling of that person inside of you.) Try to go to a swimming class or ask the YMCA if there is anyway you can get a pool pass at a cheaper rate if you can't afford one. It will help, take a warm (not hot warm, just warm) bath and soak for as many hours as you need to... I did that almost daily.
2007-10-09 19:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure the rash is not PUPP? The doctor should recognize it if it is.
I know how you feel, I am almost 29 weeks with number 4 and I feel like a whale that got ran over by an 18 wheeler.
Just hang in there, you are over half way through it!
My breast never went back to prepregancy size. They got a cup size bigger with each one! I started out a perfect C and now am a DD growing...will probably be an E before to long.
2007-10-09 18:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by busemomme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously- on another thread you are debating whether or not to abort your pregnancy because you "don't want a kid" (your words, not mine) now on this thread you are talking about how much you love your baby??
Are you just trying to get people going?
ETA:
You never said you wanted an abortion? Hmmmm... let's look at one of your other posts:
You said, in a post titled "Keep it abort it or adopt it"
"im 20 y/o broke and jobless homeless staying with a friend barely educated and pregnant and i know im not ready to have a child in any way shape or form. i can get a min wage job that wont even pay the rent on a studio let alone bills food and clothing or all the things babies need my family doesnt believe in helping others take care of their kids because they feel everyone should be independent and hold their own. the guy who im pregnant by is my abusive ex that i cut out my life who only cares about spending money on drugs and alcohol and doesnt want kids. i was on birth control when i got pregnant i would like kids sumday but i really feel that im not ready to have kids now until i get my life str8 now i'm stuck in this rut. i really dont want it but i dont want giving it up for adoption neither because i dont want someone else raising my flesh and blood and having a kid somewhere out there and not apart of thier life. what should i do? keep it abort it or giving it up for adoption?"
So, you are either a troll, a chronic liar, or have a split personality.
2007-10-10 01:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by mornnglry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have had a fairly good pregnancy, i kept working full time as a waitress up untill this week. I get sore feet, my back hurts and im always tired. Im now 38 weeks and not working but i am always tried sore and extremely heavy. I have to pee all the time day and night, when i sleep my back aches heaps, my hips get sore and omg the leg cramps. Im well and truely over being pregnany just wish my little one was as keen as i am for her to come out.
2007-10-09 19:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao...
When I was pregnant I was so constipated... gas build up on my chest... I couldn't stop eating little debbies!! Oh yeah... It hurt and I couldn't eat any meat or animal products at all... But I loved it at the same time. I am trying for #2 now. I miss being preggers. Some people have it harder than others. ☺☺☺☺
2007-10-09 18:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey
im 34 weeks preg with baby number 5. my pubic bone hurts like crap, my back, my feet, breasts and just about everything hurts lol. including this pregnancy my last 2 were so painful that i could cry all day.
but not long to go and ive lasted 34 weeks so i'll just try hang in there lol. good luck
2007-10-09 19:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by crissy_d_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean about you not feeling like sex in the first 3 or so months but i have no idea why your boyfriend doesnt want to. Does he work alot or work long hours?? Maybe he is really tired or run down?? Or maybe he, like other males think it will hurt bubba, having sex? If he is easy to talk to maybe you could try talking about it
2016-05-20 04:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my back has hurt pretty bad since about week 25.
now at week 35 my ankles are swollen terribly.
and i've had to pee every five minutes the whole time.
no sex the whole time. hormones have made my libido go completely away.
2007-10-09 18:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and last evening you wanted to abort it? You are confused! Now you have a husband and yesterday you had a looser for a boyfriend.
2007-10-10 14:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by whata waste 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang on in there ,it doesnt last forever ,ust seems like it.try vinegar for the itch ,it is an antiseptic and is great for any itch
2007-10-09 18:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋