i had an orgy when i got pregnant with my son and idk who the father is how can i find those other guys that i slpet with i tested 2 of them and they were not the father but i only know the other guys first names or maybe its their nick name idk but i need to find my babys father does maury really help find the baby daddys? help! this is serious and im only 19 years old and i need a daddy for my son!
2007-10-09 15:10:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am pregnant again and i need to find the father of my first child because i cant take care of 2 children by myself!
2007-10-09 15:16:55 · update #1
to all of you asking how i got a patenity test done when im pregnant im pregnant with a baby girl im talking about i need to find my sons dad to help out with him because now im having another kid and its gona be really hard for me
2007-10-10 05:22:57 · update #2
I don't even know if this is real, but..
Yeah, I bet there is some talk show that would help you out, but do you really want to subject yourself to that? Do you really want to make a sideshow of your life?
Maybe you'd do better dating in the traditional sort of way and finding the love of your life than doing detective work and hunting down some random guy you met at an orgy whose name you aren't even sure of to fill the role of "daddy" for your kid. What if you found him and didn't really like him once you got to know him? What happens in the likely even that he really doesn't want to be your baby's daddy?
If you need help with kids right now, look for community programs in your area, support groups for single mothers, and your family.
2007-10-09 15:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you would like to find the father of your son, but more importantly you need step back and ask yourself who you are. Why were you engaging in risky behavior with multiple men. Focus on learning to respect yourself and turn your life around so that you can be the best role model for your child. You would not want your child involved in orgies and so strive to be a better person and learn to love yourself first. The father of this baby does not want someone who he has met in an orgy...lets be real. I know this may sound painful but if you focus on loving you, then a man will come. You don't need a daddy for your son, you need to respect yourself and raise your son yourself. We all make mistakes...it gives us a chance to do things differently the next time. Learn from your mistake.
2007-10-09 15:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Marla M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, you have GOT to pull oyur life together.
your 19 and have your whole future ahead of you.
if your baby's father is such a bad person that he's having sex with random girls, ten you can bet he doesn;t care about the baby. You'll be better off without him.
stop having sex with random guys. get a job, start going to a community college to get education in something! if you keep degrading yourslef like this, you will go nowhere in life. and when you get old and aren't a hot 19 year old anymore. you'll be miserable.
If you want to attract the RIGHT kind of guy that wouldn't gte a random girl pregnant, ten you need to be the RIGht type of girl.
Grow up. be resposible. be a good mother.
if your not a good mother your baby is gonna mek the same mistakes your making.
Pull yourslef together for the sake of you baby nad the sake of oyu. do you really wnat another person to go through what your going through?!!!! Stop the chain while you still can and pull your life together.
STOP looking for the baby's father!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! believe me he'll only break your heart and make matters more complicated then they already are.
I wish you the best of luck in life and hope for your baby's sake that you'll make the right decision!!!!
2007-10-09 15:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Hmmm....
I agree with the other girl that asked how you got tested (dna) if you are 28 weeks pregnant .. I thought that happened after the baby was born.
If you are stupid enough to have an orgy ... especially unprotected, you do not deserve to find the father! Especially since you already had a baby at home. I feel sorry for those poor children.
2007-10-09 15:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Squeakers 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can request a paternity test AFTER the baby is born. Trying to get DNA samples while you are still pregnant could be dangerous for the baby.
You don't need Maury.
You need to learn to control yourself and practice abstinence. And if you want a "full time daddy" then get married to a good man who will take care of you.
2007-10-09 15:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...well I'll keep any negative comments I have about that to myself.
But the only thing you can do is start asking around. Ask the other guys you tested, they may know the names of the other ones.
You need to be tested for STDS also
2007-10-09 15:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes maury really does help.Sorry you're going through this. but if you go on maury all those other guys will just dog you out and talk bad about you and make you sound like the worst person in the world.
2007-10-09 15:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-08 22:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by owen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh sick!! yes have you not watched maury?? your case sounds like something that would be on the show! maybe you should call him up! find out who the other ones are and call maury. the paternity tests maury gives are free.
2007-10-09 15:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY 19 YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND WHO YOUR ARE DOING IT WITH..WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO GO TO MAURY JUST GET WHO EVER YOU THINK IS THE DAD AND TEST THEM..GIRLS LIKE YOU ARE THE ONES WHO GIVE YOUNG ADULTS THE LOOK OF IMMATURITY. IF YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF AND YOUR CONSEQUENCES YOU SHOULDN'T BE HAVING SEX
2007-10-09 15:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by cutie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋