New commers in the organization I've been in for 2-3 years are really rude to me. I dont know how to get them to be less rude to me and I haven't even talked to them ever. I'm not really geeky or annoying (even if I was, they wouldnt be able to tell) and each day they seem to get worse and worse. What do I do so that they are less annoying?
2007-10-09 15:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Hotdivababe 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
just a thought, you say you have not talked to them ever. maybe it is you being rude, and them responding?
if this is not the case, and they are just rude idiots, just be really, excessively polite to them whenever you see them or talk to them. this really freaks people out!
2007-10-09 15:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Minerva 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 22:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by owen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is your best. Be considerate and remember when you are looking at them, they are looking at you. You see their faces, are you just reflecting your perceived opinion of them? Give them the benefit of the doubt. Adjust your thinking. Smile when you see them. Think something nice about them so you will have something nice to say. Treat them how you would like them to treat you, and be glad. You may just have some new friends.
2007-10-09 15:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them unless you are required to interact with them as part of your work. Raise yourself above them, be professional when you need to, but stop going out of your way to try to be friendly or win them over. Say, "Good Morning," and "Good Night"--whatever--just polite conversation and smile all the time when you are around them.
2007-10-09 15:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like...define how rude they are first...because I don't think the new comers in your organization know that they're being annoying. Just try avoiding them in anyway you can. Hope this helps.
2007-10-09 15:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just take the focus off of them and put it on yourself by becoming an overachiever in your organization. the best revenge is success
2007-10-09 15:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just kill them with kindness, make sure you know and address them by their names, and if you are in a management or "boss" position make sure you are a leader and not one who talks down and degrades others just because you're "higher up". It really is that simple.
2007-10-09 15:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They apparently feel pressured and insecure and afraid no one will like them. Forgive and forget, holding grudges will not make anything better.
2007-10-09 15:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by LeGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u in a rank system, where u can tell them whos boss.
2007-10-09 15:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your weird, no one has any idea what your talking about.
2007-10-09 15:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by tricky k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋