ok..theres this boy i like. to me he's cute. but its just his mouth that is different.(kinda wierd) but it doesn't bother me. but going around school all i hear from ppl is eww dat boy is ugly. and they were talking about the boy i like. most of the time i really dnt care about wat ppl think. but now i kinda do cause its a new school 4 me. how can i handle this???
2007-10-09 13:55:06 · 21 answers · asked by queen_capricorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o yea i dnt go with him......yet probably
2007-10-09 14:08:41 · update #1
Don't think about what they say. They only know the externalities and not the real person inside. As long as you're happy with it, it doesn't matter what they all think.
2007-10-09 14:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a few things you should consider, 1. which is more important, him or what people think of you 2. how much would you liking him effect what people think of you 3. Also if you are realitively preaty and nobody else likes him, if you asked him out or something, you have no idea how much that would probley mean to him.
2007-10-09 14:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty messed up it really does not matter what people think because for all you know he could be the one that will treat you the way you deserve people are shallow be the bigger person and show them you can think for yourself and your not worried bout what they have to say and put urself in his shoes how u would feel if u knew a guy didnt go out with u because everyone else thought u were ugly
2007-10-09 14:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by hostile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him that's all that should matter. if he's a nice guy who's good to you that's what counts, right? why do you need validation from other people? a great guy is a great guy, and if other people insult him in front of you maybe it's because they feel like they can't get someone that great.
don't worry about what others think. you opinion of him is the only one that means anything.
just give him a chance.
2007-10-09 14:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by kookookachoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, please god no. Not an ugly boy. Whatever can you do. How can you possibly handle this?
1. Grow up
2. If you're embarrassed to admit you like him because of his looks then I don't think he's the right guy for you.
You're lucky I'm not in a bad mood today.
2007-10-09 14:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Josh K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going to let people decide who you like. so what if he/ or she is not the prettiest person, it's what's in side that counts. If you where with the most beautiful person on earth, and they had an accident that messed up their face, do you stop loving them because they are not beautiful?
2007-10-09 14:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get u completly!!!
dont worry about others, if u like him and u get along well why would u break up with him coz he's a bit unconventional? and what is the garantee that u'll find a good looking guy whom u'll get along well and who'll treat u better???
if anyone tells u he's not good looking and all, just tell them hes a nice person and treats u well.
2007-10-09 14:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by sab 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality + Looks = A great person.
Uglyassfag + Good Personality = Holy hell what a mistake you've made.
2007-10-09 14:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by Timon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care about him then it shouldn't matter to you how attractive he is. My boyfriend isn't particularly attractive and it used to bother me and i would be a little bit embarrassed with him in public, but at this point i really love him and i've learned to see past it. also, my feelings for him have changed my view of his appearance and i find him more physically attractive than i used to
2007-10-09 14:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by ohhhgoodness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you really like him, go out with him, if he really is a good person you'll see, and you'll grow to really like him and not really care about it,and it woun't be an issue anymore.
Do what you want it's your choices that affect you, not anyone else. Tell them to just fug off.
2007-10-09 14:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋