What happens to you when you die?

Question

I have read science journals where they have documented near death experiences as being the opioid receptors (opioid effect). I am afraid nothing is there beyond the grave. I am too afraid to not believe in God, but wise enough to explore. I am confused and scared.

That would mean my mother is just laying dead in her grave and it makes me weep and very depressed.

The mourning process has been 16 years so far.

bre--you saved me

Answer 1

I was just on this site and I was reading something about this very subject I hope this clears things up for you helps you to not be so confused about things. It helped me.

When Someone You Love Dies


A Sure Hope for the Dead





A 25-year-old woman wrote: "In 1981 my adoptive mother died of cancer. Her death was very hard on me and my adoptive brother. I was 17, and my brother was 11. I missed her so much. Having been taught that she was in heaven, well, I wanted to take my own life to be with her. She was my best friend."

It seems so unfair that death should have the power to take away someone you love. And when it happens, the thought of never again being able to talk to, laugh with, or hold your loved one can be most difficult to bear. That pain is not necessarily erased by being told that your loved one is up in heaven.

The Bible, however, holds out a much different hope. As we have previously noted, the Scriptures indicate that it is possible to be reunited with your dead loved one in the near future, not in an unknown heaven but right here on earth under peaceful, righteous conditions. And at that time humans will have the prospect of enjoying perfect health, and they will never have to die again. 'But surely that is wishful thinking!' some may say.

What would it take to convince you that this is a sure hope? To believe in a promise, you would need to be certain that the one making the promise is both willing and able to fulfill it. Who, then, is it that promises that the dead will live again?

In the spring of 31 C.E., Jesus Christ boldly promised: "Just as the Father raises the dead up and makes them alive, so the Son also makes those alive whom he wants to. Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his [Jesus'] voice and come out." (John 5:21, 28, 29) Yes, Jesus Christ promised that millions now dead will live again on this earth and have the prospect of remaining on it forever under peaceful, paradisaic conditions. (Luke 23:43; John 3:16; 17:3; compare Psalm 37:29 and Matthew 5:5.) Since Jesus made the promise, it is safe to assume that he is willing to fulfill it. But is he able to do so?

Less than two years after making that promise, Jesus demonstrated in a powerful way that he is both willing and able to perform the resurrection.



"Lazarus, Come On Out!"




It was a touching scene. Lazarus was gravely ill. His two sisters, Mary and Martha, sent word to Jesus, who was across the Jordan River: "Lord, see! the one for whom you have affection is sick." (John 11:3) They knew that Jesus loved Lazarus. Would not Jesus want to see his sick friend? Curiously, instead of going to Bethany immediately, Jesus stayed where he was for the next two days.—John 11:5, 6.

Lazarus died some time after the message about his sickness was sent. Jesus knew when Lazarus died, and he intended to do something about it. By the time Jesus finally arrived in Bethany, his dear friend had been dead four days. (John 11:17, 39) Could Jesus bring back to life someone who had been dead that long?

On hearing that Jesus was coming, Martha, a woman of action, ran out to meet him. (Compare Luke 10:38-42.) Touched by her sorrow, Jesus assured her: "Your brother will rise." When she indicated her faith in a future resurrection, Jesus plainly told her: "I am the resurrection and the life. He that exercises faith in me, even though he dies, will come to life."—John 11:20-25.

Upon arriving at the tomb, Jesus directed that the stone closing its entrance be taken away. Then, after praying aloud, he commanded: "Lazarus, come on out!"—John 11:38-43.

All eyes were fixed on the tomb. Then, out of the darkness, a figure emerged. His feet and hands were bound with wrappings, and his face was bound with a cloth. "Loose him and let him go," ordered Jesus. The last of the unraveled bandages fell to the ground. Yes, it was Lazarus, the man who had been dead four days!—John 11:44.



Did It Really Happen?




The account of the raising of Lazarus is presented in the Gospel of John as a historical fact. The details are too vivid for it to be a mere allegory. To question its historicity is to question all the miracles of the Bible, including the resurrection of Jesus Christ himself. And to deny the resurrection of Jesus is to deny the Christian faith as a whole.—1 Corinthians 15:13-15.

Actually, if you accept the existence of God, you should have no problem believing in the resurrection. To illustrate: A person can videotape his last will and testament, and after he dies, his relatives and friends can see and hear him, in effect, as he explains how his estate is to be handled. A hundred years ago, such a thing was unthinkable. And to some people now living in remote parts of the world, the technology of video recording is so beyond comprehension as to seem miraculous. If scientific principles established by the Creator can be used by humans to reconstruct such a visible and audible scene, should not the Creator be able to do far more? Is it not reasonable, then, that the One who created life is capable of re-creating it?

The miracle of Lazarus' restoration to life served to increase faith in Jesus and the resurrection. (John 11:41, 42; 12:9-11, 17-19) In a touching way, it also reveals the willingness and desire of Jehovah and his Son to perform the resurrection.



'God Will Have a Yearning'




The response of Jesus to Lazarus' death reveals a very tender side of the Son of God. His deep feelings on this occasion clearly indicate his intense desire to resurrect the dead. We read: "Mary, when she arrived where Jesus was and caught sight of him, fell at his feet, saying to him: 'Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.' Jesus, therefore, when he saw her weeping and the Jews that came with her weeping, groaned in the spirit and became troubled; and he said: 'Where have you laid him?' They said to him: 'Lord, come and see.' Jesus gave way to tears. Therefore the Jews began to say: 'See, what affection he used to have for him!'"—John 11:32-36.

Jesus' heartfelt compassion is here indicated by three expressions: "groaned," "became troubled," and "gave way to tears." The original-language words used in recording this touching scene indicate that Jesus was so deeply moved by the death of his dear friend Lazarus and the sight of Lazarus' sister weeping that His eyes brimmed over with tears.*

What is so remarkable is that Jesus had previously brought two others back to life. And he fully intended to do the same with Lazarus. (John 11:11, 23, 25) Yet, he "gave way to tears." Restoring humans to life, then, is not a mere procedure for Jesus. His tender and deep feelings as manifested on this occasion clearly indicate his intense desire to undo the ravages of death.

Since Jesus is 'the exact representation of Jehovah God's very being,' we rightly expect no less of our heavenly Father. (Hebrews 1:3) Of Jehovah's own willingness to perform the resurrection, the faithful man Job said: "If an able-bodied man dies can he live again? . . . You will call, and I myself shall answer you. For the work of your hands you will have a yearning." (Job 14:14, 15) Here the original-language word that is rendered "you will have a yearning" denotes God's earnest longing and desire. (Genesis 31:30; Psalm 84:2) Clearly, Jehovah must keenly anticipate the resurrection.

Can we really believe the resurrection promise? Yes, there is no doubt that Jehovah and his Son are both willing and able to fulfill it. What does this mean for you? You have the prospect of being reunited with dead loved ones right here on earth but under very different conditions!

Jehovah God, who started mankind off in a lovely garden, has promised to restore Paradise on this earth under the rule of His heavenly Kingdom in the hands of the now glorified Jesus Christ. (Genesis 2:7-9; Matthew 6:10; Luke 23:42, 43) In that restored Paradise, the human family will have the prospect of enjoying life without end, free from all sickness and disease. (Revelation 21:1-4; compare Job 33:25; Isaiah 35:5-7.) Gone, too, will be all hatred, racial prejudice, ethnic violence, and economic oppression. It will be into such a cleansed earth that Jehovah God through Jesus Christ will resurrect the dead.

That is now the hope of the Christian woman mentioned at the beginning of this section. Several years after her mother died, Jehovah's Witnesses helped her to make a careful study of the Bible. She recalls: "After learning about the resurrection hope, I cried. It was wonderful to know that I will see my mother again."

If your heart similarly yearns to see a loved one again, Jehovah's Witnesses will gladly assist you to learn how you can make this sure hope your very own. Why not contact them.

Hey again

I advise you to pray to god tonight about your concerns and ask for help. Or perhaps even ask for him to send you someone who can help answer these concerns you have. If your prayers are earnest and heartfelt they wil be answered. I hope I helped you and not confused you even more. and I am glad you want to explore and ask questions the world should have more people like you in it.

Answer 2

I am thinking the exact same thing right now. It is sometimes hard to believe in God when things happen and over all it sometimes seems crazy but then I'm afraid if I don't i will go to Hell. Hopefully some other answers can help answer fr both of us but if you want a religious view of what happens after you die read "90 minutes in Heaven" it's a true story but some people may get different things out of it. I lost my Mom too and I'm very sorry.

Answer 3

There are all kinds of theoires and controversies surrounding what happens after your body dies.
Some say that the out of body experiences that occur are actually your subconscious, others say it's heaven welcoming you.
People have all different beliefs, heaven, hell, a new universe, another astral plane, reincarnation. Lots and lots of theories.
Personally, I don't know what to believe about death, when I was younger it consumed me for a short time, but then I realized that whatever DOES happen, it's not like you have a choice as to what happens to you. so I just stopped wondering and i stopped caring about death.
I can tell you this. don't live your life fearing death and don't spend all of your time thinking about it. You're alive, so take a breath, explore nature, see the world and go for your dreams. Make the most out of your life and never miss a moment.
Everybody and everything dies. it's inevitable, but don't waste your time wondering why and what happens to you when it happens.
Hope that helps a little, just LIVE!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Science states that energy can not be created nor destroyed. This begs the question what happens to the energy of a person when he/she dies? Is it the soul that raises to heaven? Is it just an exception to the rule? No one will ever really know. I want to bring up the research of a scientist (forgot what his name was) who created a scale with a bed on it to measure the weight of an ailing patient before and after death. The shocking part is that there was a change in the weight of the subject. This can be taken in different ways, but seeing as there is no reason for the difference in weight it could possibly show that the soul is an actual occurance in the human body. As you will never know there really is no point in worrying about it. Live your life how you want to live it and you'll get your answer at the end of it all. I know that it is scary, but there are somethings that you just can't worry about because they will eat you up.

Answer 6

funny they can try and say it is a phsyical response,
but htey cannot explain ISANDs and the NDErf.org
stories of people who were clinically dead,
and yet report words said outside the room,
people visiting the room while they were considered
dead, lost objects set high in the room
(On top of cabinets and shelves that are closed or locked...)
and also descriptions of what happened from above
the operating table, not from the table perspective,
(like doctor's bald spots and other things...)

the bright light they see is not the lamp of the operating
rooms...and they come back and their lives are transformed,
so go and read even more than jsut the science...
who still deny we have more memory than can be stored/
retrieved in one brain...wink
and all the other miraculous things they discredit.

they want to say a premonition is a brain hiccup...
when people can recite word for word random conversations,
describe to a-tee songs, sunlight and other details
of events that haven't happened yet...and live to see
them not only come true but be exactly what they
were described to be.

yes, much happens that science cannot explain.
tumors that disappear overnight,
gallbladders that regrow after being fully removed...
many many strange and wonderful things.

So go ahead and ask, but ask of God, not man.
Find out from the source...wink.

hugs.

Answer 7

Even if there is nothing beyond the grave, you're not getting a worse deal than anyone else. We're all going to die - our bodies, anyway. Worrying about it won't help.

My father died 2 years ago, and I expect that his body would be pretty corroded by now. But he wasn't just his body. I sometimes feel his presence.

Answer 8

People seek complex answers to relatively
common questions. Some want the atheist
philosophies, doctrines, ideologies and intellectual
grandeur. Some seek the theist deep-rooted faith
in a Holy Book which is a covenant from God's
Words as having been handed down to man and of
the teachings of the Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Others simply try to incorporate both entities and adopt
bi-polar theories and belief systems..but here's the deal; you
can't both believe in God and explore other avenues. Either you're on one team or you're on the other. You don't get to be on both.
Finally, the answer to your question:
When people die their souls either go to heaven or to hell.
There is no in between. Isn't it interesting how life and death tend to parallel themselves?
Peace and happiness.

Answer 9

If u believe in God and that Jesus died for your sins so u can live forever in heaven with Him and other believers, then you'll spend eternity in happiness and beauty not seen or heard of here on earth.
Those who don't believe in God and don't eccept him as their personal savior, will suffer in hell for eternity where they will forever burn, and gnash their teeth in pain, but won't be able to die or escape.
You never know when your time is up, so make it a point today to receive Jesus into your heart, read Bible daily, because it's a guide for our life, find a good Bible teaching church, and live for Christ.
This will be the best thing you ever do in your life. Trust me.

Answer 10

I know what you're going through. I also have that "explore" mind. What I saw, though, amazed me. Looking through all the manuscripts (such as the Dead Sea Scrolls and others), I noticed that almost, if not all, of the events that took place in the Bible after Exodus (we obviously still don't know about evolution/creationism yet) is true. That means that Jesus, and all the things he did and said, were real. Which includes the "believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved" part. And the heaven part. Stats and numerous ancient manuscripts don't lie.

Answer 11

The good part is if it all comes to an end, you won't be alive to care.
I hate to admit this, but I and many other people have seen ghosts and know that there is something beyond death, but exactly what it is, nobody really knows.
It is probably better to believe in God and be wrong,than to not believe in God and be wrong. Know what I mean?
I do not believe that your creator will punish you for not believeing in him though, I just mean you will feel better about death of you believe in a God.