2007-10-09 13:11:08 · 12 answers · asked by silverandbluecowboysrule 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A LOT!!! Numbers? no you cannot quantify unless you make a nantional survey to include 14 years old kids maybe even younger. Basically girls would feel pressured if the guy they go out with is into it only for sex.
2007-10-09 13:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by alecs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex on the first night? Sex on the first night?
If a girl feels pressure to have sex on the first night, she should relieve that pressure by placing a good, swift kick right into the area of the guy which is producing the pressure.
It usually helps.
2007-10-09 13:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I never did, and no girl should ever have sex if they don't want to. If you feel pressured then that's not the right guy for you if he's the one pressuring you, if you are just wanting to have sex because you feel you owe it to him then you may not be right for him. Go with your heart and do it only if you want to, but I don't recommend any woman have sex on the first night because then you come off as easy.
2007-10-09 13:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by crymeariver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very stubborn and strong willed so I was never pressured into anything I didn't want to do. I was never with any guy that would want to do that, either. I always dated guys that were either my equal and wanted the same things I did, when I did, or pretty close to it.
I hope that you don't ever find yourself in a position where you feel "pressured" to do anything you don't want to do or are not ready to do. You should value yourself for the fantastic person that you are and make sure the guys you date see that as well. If they really want to be with someone as great as you are, they'll be willing to wait until you are mutually ready to make that move.
2007-10-09 13:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost always!
Here's a tip I was taught:
Picture the guy you're about to have sex with being the one you HAVE to marry and have kids with.
Can you say with all your soul that the guy ONLY wants you for the rest of his life?
Don't buy into the pressure..you will know when you are ready and RESPONSIBILITY of protection is job #1!
2007-10-09 13:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope none. It should never be expected on the first date unless the guy is in it just for the sex.
2007-10-09 13:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men try to put the pressure on but I dont go for it. It seems as if some men just expect it right away
2007-10-09 13:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by hollygolightly 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The first night would be the last night if any guy had the audacity to do that to me.
2007-10-09 13:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Easy Mohinder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK if you want to have sex on the first night that is OK that is your choice but personally i think that sex on the first night is stupid.Because it is not for love. a one nigth stand is not going to do you good. and it becomes a problem when you get pregnant
2007-10-09 13:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Patricia C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't ever feel pressured due to that I date men that act like men not little boys......:)
2007-10-09 13:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋