Well i have a boyfriend and he is really nice to me and he likes me a lot. but the thing is....i kinda want to break up with him. hes a nice guy and everything but i just don't feel the sparks. when Im around him its just like"ok, your there...now what?" i don't want to break up with him but im not very happy in this relationship. do you think that i should break up with him? if so how should i go about doing that? breaking up isn't something i do often. and also do you think it is wrong to kiss someone in a play? (the school play) and one more question, do you know how to get someone to break up with you? (the last question is just something i've always wondered.
2007-10-09 12:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would just talk to him and tell him how you feel, tell him that you're not happy anymore and want to see other people. how hard is that?? and if you're supposed to kiss someone in the play because the script calls for it then what's the problem? how do you get someone to break up with you? you really can't, there aren't many good ways, not even cheating always works and i don't recommend that....i say that if you're not happy speak up and get yourself out of that relationship!
2007-10-10 10:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to face reality and stop leading this guy on. Break up with him asap. and be honest with him. Tell him you like his company but the sparks just are not there anymore. The longer you wait, the more your hurting him though so once again do this asap. Secondly, no kissing in a play is not considered cheating.
2007-10-09 12:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by kyledc13 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having someone manoeuvre you into breaking up with them is awfully cruel. Don't be a little coward please for your own sake. Sit down and talk (if he is as nice as you say he will appreciate that you care enough to do that.) Tell him that you care for him but feel that you and he are not ready for a heavy ongoing commitment, and you think that it would be better if you didn't see each other so much. That may hurt him a little but he will come out of it with no excuse for grief on your part. OK? good luck to you.
2007-10-09 13:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You have to be gentle about it and tell him to his face. Just explain kindly that you're not feeling the 'sparks' anymore and would love it if you two could remain friends instead.
2. Kissing someone in a school play is fine - nothing wrong about it!
3. To get someone to break up with you just act like the COMPLETE opposite person that they fell in love with. For example... if you're nice - act nasty. If you're fun - be boring.
2007-10-09 12:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i'm not sure breaking up w/some1, since i usually get people 2 break up w/me instead of breaking up w/them (i think it's easier) so i thought i'd answer that.
~when i want a guy 2 break up w/me, i sit on other guy's laps, flirt HUGELY w/them, & once even kissed another guy in front of the bf. sounds mean, but it works great. lol
~& kissing some1 on a play? i dont think it's wrong at all. it's just a play, rite? it may lead 2 something else later on, but a play is just a play.
good luck! :)
2007-10-09 12:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by girl_dramaqueen 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Gotta have THE SPARK.
Do the poor guy a favor and let him know how you feel.
Tell him you like someone else--that should do the trick.
2007-10-09 12:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋