ok so, i dont talk to him all that often and i really like him so when i do talk to him i turn bright red. he knows that i like him and i have three classes with him in p.e. i sit near him and i look at him then he sees me then he looks and i turn away while he is still looking and then he turns away and i look and so on, in science he looks at me while im not looking and then ill look at him and hell smile and ill smile then one of us will look away. he is not weirded out by me looking at him. we text a lot and i flirt text. there are 2 rumors going around 1, that he likes me but is to scared to ask me out and two that he doesnt like me, everyone is telling me that he likes me bt i dont know for sure and i dont want to ask him out and then say yes b cuz he doesnt want to hrt my feelings becuz he is sweet like that and then hate our date...im in middle school, and no im not going to do that retarded clevge thing. ok help!!!!!!!
2007-10-09 12:48:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's a great piece of advice someone gave me when I was about your age.."Believe nothing of what you hear and only 50% of what you see." Meaning...rumors can not be trusted and what we see sometimes isn't whats really going on. Try not turning away when you smile and then ask him about p.e or try to ask a question about something he's interested in. I don't think you should ask him out, give him time. I know it's difficult but be patient. Would there be a group thing where you both can go? Maybe something fun so there won't be any pressure. Oh and I'm proud of you for not flaunting your body at him. No boy who goes out with you because of your body is worth being with. Good for you!
2007-10-09 12:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by fieldorice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's a rumor going around that he likes you...chances are, it's true. It's very possible that he told one of his friends, and his friend accidentally told someone else, and then it got spread around. No one's going to spread a rumor like that unless it's true. Also, the key point is that you guys smile at each other, which is a red flag that he likes you. It's good that you guys talk to each other (even if it's just through texting all the time). How about you guys start hanging out more, and you get comfortable with each other, then maybe you can ask him, or ask your friend to ask him, if he likes you or not.
2007-10-09 19:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just go for it. Like ask him to hang out at the mall or at a local coffee shop or something. But make it really chill. Then if he just likes you as friends it's not awkward, but if he does like you, he has a chance to make his move. Just don't come on too strong. That's what turns guys off.
2007-10-09 19:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by sapphiregirl089 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right, i'm a freshman and i've been having really bad problems recently but i went through this too and just try to work up the courage and ask him, what you also may want to do is practice saying it mentaly and pretend he's in front of you so you won't blush as much whenever you try to talk to him.
2007-10-09 19:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by xxTakexMyxHeartxAwayxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
G R O W - U P ! ! ! !
Just ask the guy over to watch a movie, or go mini golf, or study after school or ANYTHING!
He says yes, your good to go. He says no, move on!
2007-10-09 19:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Obvious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe in one of those flirty texts, you should ask him out. Sounds like he has an interest in you.
2007-10-09 19:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by tallglassofwater91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.Don't be shy.And he really like you he should give signs.like waving hi a Lot.Picking up your pencil when you drops yours.There a lot of signs.He probably kinda likes you.He probably shy himself.You gave him hints.so he should give you hints.
2007-10-09 19:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok what you should do is talk to him in persn and hang out outside of school. go from there. good luck!
2007-10-09 19:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Phylicia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get 1 of his friends 2 get the scoop or tell him you heard the rumor....he might confess!!! guys like confidence
2007-10-09 19:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow confusing but i think you should wait for a while has he been acting like weirdly around you anr/or has he been ignoring you if he has than yes he likes you!! yay
2007-10-09 19:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by iloveyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋