My girlfriend has is avoiding me because she thinks that I want other women.?

Question

My girlfriend has is avoiding me because she thinks that I want other women. She found some old emails of a past girlfriend I had talked to who was trying to get back with me. She now avoids me totally and said that she wants to see how long it takes for me to to have sex with another woman. I told her that I do not want anyone else. What should I do?

Answer 1

Ask her if she would like you to be with someone else, because you sure don't want to be. Tell her that ex girlfriends are exactly that ex's. They will always try and start trouble, but that won't happen if you two are together, that way she will know what you are doing. If she feels that you can't be trusted, then tell her she has to be the one to tell you to leave and never come back(she won't do it, because she really does love you, just had her feelings hurt) and if she really wants you to leave her alone you will respect her and leave. Tell her that if she wants you, that you would very much like to forget all the other people in your past, and will not bring up any one from her past either. You have to be sincere, because she will see through any bolony you put out. You now have to make a commitment to this girl, if you love her as much as you say. You will have to focus on a life only with her, and if you can't do that, then you should walk away. I'm not saying that you have to become engaged, but you need to be straight with her. I hope everything works out for you.