I just want your opinion and answers.thanks!!
2007-10-09 09:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by Nando 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is different for each female, and I'm sure it is different for every man that each female is with. I really don't think it is about trust, either. It is about how much the female likes him and is comfortable with him. Also, I know many women don't have sex right away because of how men have put such a HUGE double standard on us........you all want us to have sex with you right away, but if we do, you call us slutts. Men burn their own bridges all on their own.
2007-10-09 09:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by jillybean5415 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It varies from person to person. Some will have sex with you on the first date, others you have to date a couple of times or so.
You do not have to love each other to have sex. People have sex all the time for fun.
You just have to feel them out. No pun intended.
2007-10-09 09:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by madcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited a year with my ex. With Kris we've only been together 3 months he's already earned my trust because we've known each other already a year (we were friends first) but we haven't done the actual deed. we're taking thing slow. It'll happen when it happens we don't plan on planning it we'll know when the time is right.
2007-10-09 09:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Noneofyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most women would start having sex right away because of the negative double standard stigma that men labeled women with. If we have a lot of different partners, we are sluts but if you have a lot of different partners, you are players, a ladies man, but in actuality, you're a man whore.
2007-10-09 13:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on our connection...might be right away, may be weeks down the road.
How can he get "that trust"? What trust? People show themselves worthy of trust by their actions. It usually takes time for someone to fully or highly trust another...sometimes sex occurs before or after the trust develops.
2007-10-09 09:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does take a while for a relationship to get serious enough before sex can be considered, one needs to be careful to ensure both parties are protected against STDs and an unwanted pregnancy.
2007-10-09 09:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends when we really know each other and love each other..and wait that sex will come naturally not plan to have sex or what...
2007-10-09 09:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by MOMMY_G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wait usually about 6 hrs....
JK average about a month
2007-10-09 09:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Mindi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush her. She'll do it in her own time. Just be honest and good to her is all I can say.
2007-10-09 09:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm yeah i would wait till marriage.
2007-10-09 11:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by nature freakk.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋