Though i also want someone who can make love with me..........
2007-10-09 00:46:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me, when you fall in love and get married. You will start to experience feelings that you didn't know you had. And when the time comes you may be nervous, but not afraid.
The best advice I can give you is just don't worry about it. It'll happen when it's suppose to. And if you force it because you just want to do it, you will regret it forever.
xxx
2007-10-09 00:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be afraid of sex????
Darling, first you should find the right man, then love him to the point when you want to spend the rest of your life with him, and when you are really in love with him everything else will flow so naturally that you will be glad you did it.
The most important thing is to love the one you make love to.
Don't be afraid about having sex. It's one of the best things you can do with smb you love anyway.
Just don't think about sex as smth ...that will hurt you. Everything flows smoothly and all you have to do is relax and enjoy it!
I can assure you that you will have a wonderful experience.
2007-10-09 01:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on the emotional bond first. Discuss your concerns and then try to work things out. You can get advice from a gynecologist about sex if you need it, but chances are when you find a man you really love the two of you can work things out.
Many women and also men go through these concerns. It isn't all that difficult and you will likely get over your fears once you are emotionally involved with someone.
2007-10-09 00:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not let nature take its course? Please refrain from sex before marriage. The Bible forbids fornication and defilement of the marriage bed. I have a two sons who would like to find a nice wife, but they wonder where all the "good" girls are. So hang in there. Don't commit fornication just because others do it. Wait until you are married and you will find that sex will come naturally out of love and desire for your mate.
2007-10-09 00:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Gail B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are "titillatable" sexually, then you must not be afraid of having sex. Even the very first time can be pleasurable, and the next ones are certainly that. It is silly to postpone your sex-life if you are mature for that. Find a man, and do it.
2007-10-09 02:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it, when you meet the right person, it will all come naturally for you. Trust and communication are very important in any relationship. Talk these feelings out with your partner as you grow closer to that point. If he truly cares for you, he will be patient and understand your need for re-assurance.
2007-10-09 00:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Stephen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say do what we all do... keep searching for someone who you can match with, someone who can tend to those fears, make you forget them, or live with them.
I for one am not afraid of sex, but dont enjoy casual sex(even with a partner).
2007-10-09 00:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dustin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will find that person i mean maybe that person is someone that u are talking to now. u just have to find someone who u are confertable with and will respect u and go slow untell u are ready
2007-10-09 00:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by schultzie2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you afraid?
what are you afraid of? (someone seeing you naked? the pain associated with sex? ...)
Be more specific
2007-10-09 00:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then overcome your fears before your wedding day..so it won't ruin your honeymoon..
2007-10-09 00:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋