I'm thinking about combineing the two parties into one for a few reasons:
1: Almost all my friends are male and one is a bisexual female
2: I am myself bisexual and would rather see female strippers than male because they are just so hot.
3: If I had a bachelorette party there would be no one there because I never really hang out with women and am not even interested in the normal womany BS.
So, how could we combine the two without things going haywire?
2007-10-08 23:03:11 · 8 answers · asked by Victoria Sparda 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My love is fine with it as we are both fun loving and aren't too strict with each other when it comes to others. As long as we know what the other is doing we are fine with it.
2007-10-08 23:09:18 · update #1
I would feel cheated if we didn't do this because, as I said, I only have one female friend. And most of my friends are his friends too.
2007-10-08 23:11:16 · update #2
I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. My fiancee and I are having our parties together. My Maid of Honor and Best Man are a couple and they are planning our parties together. If both of you have the same friends and you agree on what you want to happen, I think it's an excellent idea.
2007-10-09 02:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess here is PEGGY is young. The purpose of a bachelorette party is one last fling? It is? So in other words, the bride to be (or groom) is allowed to pick up someone, have sex or do whatever without worry about cheating since it is their bachelor(ette) party?
It is NOT about a last fling. It is about celebrating the upcoming wedding with your closest and dearest friends.
If you are looking around and worrying about who is looking then there is a problem. You should not be doing something at your party that you would be ashamed your soon to be wife or husband would see. A bachelor(ette) party is not a free pass to act like a tramp.
As far as your question goes, there is nothing wrong with having a dual party. This is your wedding! You do what you want!
Personally, I don't think strippers of either sex have any place at a bachelor(ette) party because I just find it in bad taste.
Good luck and have a good party.
2007-10-09 02:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether your friends are male or female, I think the best way to do a co-ed bachelor/bachelorette party is to do the first half separately and then join up halfway through the evening.
As for the combined portion of the event, going to a female strippers club could be a lot of fun with a co-ed group. It's not really about whether you're hetero, bi, or homosexual, it's about the fun of seeing naked people dance and having a few drinks.
Bachelor/bachelorette party scavenger hunts can also be quite fun with a co-ed group.
2007-10-09 07:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by optimistundersiege 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both into the stripping thing than have a party with all of your friend and either go to a stip club or get a stripper to come to your house and supply everything yourself. It sounds like you both want the same thing and why should you not have the same party. I have thought about it too for mine. We just want a party in general. I don't need my own. I will have all my friends to myself the day before the wedding decorating and we can have a party then.
Good luck and have fun that is all that matters.
2007-10-09 01:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by rae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We had a combined party for friends it was by far the best bachelorette party I have been to yet. We started at a friends' house that we could have the girls in one room and the guys in another for gifts (The guys, played cards and such). Then we got together, ate, had drinks and then went to the casino nearby (riverboat) for a couple hours. After, we had the party bus take us all to local bars. We were all friends and the couple wanted to hang out with everyone, girls and guys, so it was the best decision we made!
2016-05-19 21:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel cheated if I did not have my own separate party. You might want to see how your partner feels about it. That is supposed to be the last fling, and how can you feel free to act single when your mate is watching everything that you do?
2007-10-08 23:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont really see why you are posting if you are both cool with it. Do what you like, its ur wedding and ur party! Welcome to the era of choice and freedom!
2007-10-09 00:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by ModBod BodMod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too complicated for me {{}
2007-10-08 23:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋