shud i be pissed??
or shud i just let it pass..
some hv suggested dropping hints..
wad do u think????
2007-10-08 22:55:20 · 24 answers · asked by gabby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its de 2nd month..still early, i admit.
but stillll...
2007-10-08 22:59:38 · update #1
Depends how long it's been and your relationship.
I would say wait. Sometimes girls get cross and it turns out the guy was playing dumb but had a surprise planned for the evening.
then again he is a man. And they can be really bad about remembering/celebrating things like anniversaries.
Oh, and happy anniversary!
Wait, you say it's been only 2 months? LOL that's not really an anniversary! I would say drop it.
2007-10-08 22:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of anniversary are we talking about ?
First Date, First Kiss.. those aren't real anniversaries unless
you've agreed ahead of time to celebrate those.
An anniversary is the same day each year that you got married on. If that's the anniversary he forgot.. yes be pissed. Men do it ALL the time.. it's called testosterone poisoning!! LOL If not... just get him something, be sweet as sugar, and make him feel guilty. Good Luck
2007-10-09 06:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by LawComm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual for one person to remember the anniversary, while the other person is more forgetful.
I would second meer_synergix's response; show him a great time, and he should not forget again. If he does, though... it's a bad sign. Maybe the relationship does not mean as much to him as it clearly does for you.
Let it pass for now... but if he is not more committed when he sees what a great girl you are... then think about moving on to someone more appreciative, and romantic.
2007-10-09 06:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married or have been in a long term relationship, he should be remembering by now. Drop hints, heck!!! Tell him, and tell him that he had better mark it on the calendar for next year or all hel# is going to break loose.
Now if it is a teenage thing, a week, a month, or something like that, don't expect him to remember, that is sooooo trivial!!
2007-10-09 06:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definintely drop some hints to him and if he doesn't catch on then it is fine to be angry. Only some men remember anniversiries and some of them you just have to teach them to remember. It is possible that he had so many things on his mind he forgot or he just didn't remember. If you'd like, have a small chat with him about it. Say that you were wondering why he didn't remember and it got you a little bit worried. Don't be too pestering about it though, don't lead him away like that. Just bring it up cooley, smoothly. Oh, and don't take "It just passed my mind" for an excuse. :) Good luck!
2007-10-09 06:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Reddie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And so what!
He forget your anniversary, but how does he always treat you? If he is a caring loving man...what is the problem...
One day is all for you...or all the day that he is with you by your side....
They are more important thing in world right now to be worried about a date...
If he is nice with you all the time...isn't he human...And you aren't perfect either....so...my best advice..keep on going, tell him about it, but dont make a fuss!!!
And if he is the kind of person who give you troubles...why are you with him anyway!
2007-10-09 06:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by ogloriad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, just greet him "happy anniversary" and study his reaction. will he come out and say "oh im sorry, i forgot?"
or will he cover it up and say he's got a surprise planned (and think of a surprise on the fly?)
or maybe he does have a surprise.
surprise! i forgot. :)
really, men aren't that good at guessing why women are pissed. we're dumb when it comes to that. so if you just act pissed he might just think you're having a bad day or something.
2007-10-09 06:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? I thought this was a 'singles' and 'dating' arena...why would a single person expect an anniversary gift??? Either you're married, or you aren't. If you aren't, it's not an anniversary, it's just another day that you remember something nice happening. Men don't think that way...You've got your wires crossed...lol
2007-10-09 06:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no!!
My dad forgot his 40th year anniversary...my mum was so angry, she'd even bought him some lovely expensive presents!
As a punishment, my mum made my dad buy her a laptop and an emerald ring! That taught him..he didn't forget this year!
So work it to your advantage and play the guilt trip!
XXXX
2007-10-09 06:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Got Peach? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a 1 year anniversary, because if it's not...then it's pointless to even celebrate.
Your way of typing and spelling makes me think you're really young.
2007-10-09 05:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋