I want to know if it's just my boyfriend or is it most guys...Why doesn't my boyfriend ever tell me that I'm sexy? I'm starting to think that I don't turn him on. Am I asking for to much? Is it a guy thing not to express your feelings for your girlfriend, to your girlfriend?
2007-10-08 22:25:42 · 18 answers · asked by Cola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Emm... it's a bit odd. Most boyfriends I know tell their girlfriends they find them hot/sexy/pretty/etc..
Maybe you should ask him straight up? Communication in a relationship is paramount and you should be able to voice out any concerns you might have, like this one, to your boyfriend.
Good luck!
2007-10-08 22:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_ixora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many possible reasons why your boyfriend never said before that you are sexy to him.personally,i have never said that to my girlfriend too.ha ha.it's just that maybe he don't think that you are sexy to him?haha,don't be so foolish to think that you are asking too much.don't worry.most guys get turn on very easily by girls.i don't think that it is a guy thing not to express guys feelings for their girlfriend.By the way,can i ask you a question?do you really mind that much on your boyfriend's opinion on you?would saying that you are sexy to him make a change?
2007-10-09 05:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand the average woman needs three times as many words as a man to get through the day.
If you want to know the answer to your question, why don't you just ask him?
However, NOT during any of the following activities, as the answer may be unreliable;
While he is watching sport on the TV.
While you are having "jigy jig".
While he is being distracted by a scantily dressed woman hoving into view.
[The answer will be that he does find you sexy - That is why you are his girlfreind].
2007-10-09 05:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok my boyfriend did never ever say im hot and we r dating for 7 years now the only time he says im hot is when one of his friends give me a compliment or when he wants something like sex!! You know how men can be so dont worry as long as u know u r sexy and hot then why care?
2007-10-09 05:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just your dude who has the problem...maybe with expressing his thoughts on how he feels about you. My boyfriend tells me I look sexy when he thinks I look it. So baby gal, you aint asking for too much. Find ways to make him tell you that you look sexy...maybe wear more sexy clothes but look decent at the same time coz you wouldn't want to let him know that you're trying too hard.
2007-10-09 05:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys aren't all that into using words like that or giving out compliments. If you ask for them, then you'll come off as insecure and needy.
It's best to just casually ask him what he thinks about how you look in a sex outfit or something. Don't say things like, " Am I pretty?"
Because most guys dislike having to constantly reassure a girl on her looks. He obviously finds you attractive, otherwise he wouldn't be with you.
2007-10-09 05:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure. My current boyfriend and former flames tell me that I'm pretty or beautiful, and that I'm hot. (shrug) I guess it really depends on the guy or the culture. Who knows? Why don't you just ask him straight up if he thinks you are such. That's the best thing to do if you really want to know what he thinks about you. Why? Are you sexy?
2007-10-09 05:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been dating a short while he could be shy. If you have been dating a long while he probably feels like he shouldn't have to tell you because you should all ready know. In my experience...there is only a short period of time that they typically let you know how sexy you are. I call it the "trying to get in your pants" period.
2007-10-09 05:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are a bit shy in saying those kinds of things. He may feel more confident if you also start calling him that and making him feel like he can say that without getting laughed at.
2007-10-09 05:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a man thing...My boyfriend always used to tell me how pretty or nice I looked today and he doesn't really tell me anymore. I kind of have to fish for a compliment now. But!!! Every once in a while he will say something nice. It is a man thing trust me...They all feel like they dont have to IMPRESS us that much anymore. If you tell him that its important to you, that might help....SR
2007-10-09 05:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey1236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋