my bf and i have been together for 8 months now, but we've also been together once before (a couple of years ago). when we were together before, we were 14 and we did say stuff like i'll love you forever - which scared neither of us.
now we're both 19. and i still feel this way: eventhough we may not be together for ever (but i hope we will) i know that i will always love him...
is this ok to say in an "adult" relationship? he didn't mind it before... but i don't want to make him feel like i'm obliging him to say it back or to spend the rest of his life with me, you know.
2007-10-08 21:52:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do really feel like this, like i will always love him. it's just... i've read a couple of places that this will make him feel as if i'm already planning our wedding or something... i don't want to scare him
2007-10-08 22:05:35 · update #1
It should always be ok to say what you feel in a relationship. If it scares the other person, then what kind of relationship is it?? whether you can see yourselves together in the long term future is irrelevant, its what you feel now that matters now.
Everyone has a special place for their first love, whether they can admit it or not. We never forget.
2007-10-08 22:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I certainly have been there b4 at 15 you cant rush marrage.. Im 26 now and its confusing i like my spouse with all my heart yet there are days we've maximum of issues ...there is plenty extra to being married than you loving the guy.. i may well be with the only you somewhat look after , tell the only which you're engaged to which you're to youthful and prefer some time to end college.. and picture approximately issues ... you certainly could get by way of college and worry approximately your existence b4 you upload extra gasoline to the fire.. if he somewhat loves you he will comprehend.. Sorry if i didnt help plenty yet i actually think of you may decelerate b4 you extra a foul choise and while you're 15 and he's eighteen that ilegal.. he could be put in reformatory
2016-10-06 08:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're unsure, don't say it till he does. Simple. Otherwise, if you will love him forever, let him know through your actions, and see how that works. Sometimes full blown raw words scare a person, and time is all thats needed to really know the extent of one another's love in a relationship.
2007-10-08 21:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by -Нџήтея’ѕ Ғє£ǿηу- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you should be glad to think u be forever together unless u feel unsecure he will leave u . Dont do this to youself as he will only leave when he dies of old age as if he is older than u ,your be surprised becuz if u older than him. your be leaving him first. after all no one can be their other half when u differant ages and one is a male and the other is a female haha.
2007-10-08 21:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok to at least say, "I feel like I'll love you forever." Maybe u 2 should discuss it more...?
See how he really feels about it.
2007-10-08 22:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.
well me and my g/f have been dating for 3 yrs. [i'm 17 and she is 16] well after all the things, emails, myspace comments, etc. we say ily forever and always.
so idk.
we don't feel weird about it
and when she says it, i know that she means it and i truly mean it so t isn't like you r oblinging him to say it back.
But i wouldn't say it unless you truly mean it.
2007-10-08 22:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ty loves reagan :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is your first love and in all honesty.. you will love him forever. There will always be a spot for him in your heart and it should be ok to tell him this!
2007-10-08 21:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its ok if u ll love each other than anything u say it dosent matter only thing it shouold not hurt anyone of u ll
2007-10-08 22:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by S S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if you're Whitney Houston!!
2007-10-08 22:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it ok because if u feel that way then he should know
2007-10-08 21:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋