I cant!! to much pain. I act like there nothing wrong with me. When everything is wrong. I lost everything! My child that i wanted. the man that i'm still in love with.. He left me for the other women! That going to have he's child! What can i do? Everybody tell me to move on! How? How do you do that? When that person was (NO) is your everything! How can one person have so much power over another? Did i give so much? I just cant cope with everything! There time that i want to END it all! It been 3 month.. that i been dealing with everything. And it feel that i'm in this DARK tunel.. And cant find my way out! Is it always going to fee like this? I need HELP! No one understand my Pain! They say ( Get over it) You can do so much better! But how do you do that? Just act like nothing happend? Walk around like I never meet that person? I just dont want to feel anymore!!! Can anyone help me?
2007-10-08 21:37:44 · 6 answers · asked by moody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi. I am going through the exect same situation as you. Gave up a child 7 years ago only hoping to have another one but he got married to another instead. Everyday is a pain for me right from when i woke up to trying to sleep. We are both still emotionally attached to that man and it wont be easy to forget or move on. But the important thing is, he has moved on. If he wants to move on and give us up and choose another, if you love him so much, you should be happy for him that he is happy. I tear and my heart hurts to think of that. But at least he is happy. I am glad he is happy now. If you really love a person, his happiness will matter a lot more than yours. You would rather suffer for him to be happy rite? Its hard to go on thinking about him and its impossible to pretend nothing happen and forget him. What I suggest is maybe you can keep him in your heart, like take it as if he died, no longer around but you can still remember him. Most importantly is you must also remember life goes on for you too, like it or not. Sometimes we dont have a choice. People make certain choices for us. Because we are not part of their life.
2007-10-08 22:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel really really bad for you, and I wish to never have to go through what you're going through right now.
All I can tell you is to talk to a friend or family member about it, someone who will listen to you and who you can trust. And if you want, you can see a psycologist, they can probably try to help you deal with these feelings.
You can also pray, especially at night, right before going to bed, look up into the sky and pray for God to help you, ask him to bring joy into your heart and make you feel better. Trust me, you will feel something warm in your soul, which will make you stop crying for that very moment and help you sleep better, this means that God has heard you.
And remember, all the pain and drama that you went through because of those people...well remember that they will suffer later. What goes around comes around. Just think to your self, that one day they will suffer like you have, and probably even worse.
Otherwise, pray.
Hope you feel better soon.
2007-10-08 21:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Gwen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dead serious, join a support group. Ask around work, ask your friends surf the web; just find a support group.
For a situation like this, joining an official support group of people going through the exact thing you're going through is by far the most effective way to get through this. I know it sucks, but a really good friend of mine went through something similar and she said her support group was an immense amount of help.
2007-10-08 21:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 21:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that your sadness may be something more than just hard times... it might be a more serious problem like clinical depression. I'd say you should see a psychiatrist or psychologist for an evaluation and recommendations. I hope you have a brighter future.
2007-10-08 21:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuhh...so what are you gonna do?
it's been 3 mos...you really wanna keep on suffering?
is it helping you in any way at all?
My Mom used to always say (when she was still alive)
"never cry over spilled milk..."
*thanks mom*
2007-10-08 21:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Slide♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋