Please answer in details..Is she having mental problems with my wife????Everyday is becoming horrible.Pls tell

Question

Dear all,
I expesct your kind feedback and diagnosis.
My wife carries following problems:
1.She is too restless.
2.Too short tempered and being tempered she tells without limit and shouts with everybody.
3.Always answer any type of ques in a negative way.
4.Pessimistic.Always busy with wrong sides of a matter and regert and unsatisfied all the time.
5.Confused a lot in any espect of decissitton.
6.Always extreme with feelings,toooo emotional,complains for a very silly incident.
7.Never do what she does not like.Example:in combind family everyone has to take a lot of responsibilities,but she does not want to do because she does not like to do.
8.If she wants something or wants to do something,she becomes tooooo serious that beyoond limit.
9.She is blind at her father.Anything though right if goes against her father she becomes too crazy.
10.Always feel different type of sickness that normally everyone can withstand.
11.She claims that she loves me,but I dont get respect..

Answer 1

I'd love to see your wife's list of the problems you carry.

Answer 2

Seems like having some problem. but iving in a joint family system is not easy for some people. and this is your side of story , i wonder what she has to say about it. For how long are you married to her. and her actions might be actually reactions to her circumstances. If you have kids , then i'll advice you to take serious step and analyse your own self your family. if she is found to be guilty, buy some good books on relation ships( by john gray) read yourself and gift her. bothof you can see your own mistakes.Please dont blame her too much, it never helps, it only makes situation worst

Answer 3

Your wife is depressed... Instead of focusing on whats wrong with her tell her what it is that is right with her, why you think she is amazing and why you feel you are a worthy husband... By her a small but thought about gift to show her you care and are worried about her being unhappy... you do not say what age you wife is, it could be hormonal ie. menopause, or she could just be unhappy with life in general... a few kind words of understanding from you and im sure she will remember why she repected you in the first place.

Answer 4

You sound like a jerk who doesn't treat his wife very well. Go to a therapist and ask for help to become a better husband.

If you spent more time being good, sweet and kind to her instead of complaining about her, she would be much happier and probably not have any of those problems.

You have to give respect to get respect. When was the last time you treated your wife with respect?

Answer 5

You already know the answer by the way you asked the question. What your wife desperately needs is a psychiatrist and a therapist. Let the psychiatrist diaignose her symptoms as he sees it and then prescribe the proper medications for what she is thinking and feeling wrong in her life. Then she will be given a therapist for herself and maybe even you can sit in on some of those sessions too. The therapist will let her speak on her thoughts and feelings and try to better understand what is going wrong in her life.
Your wife is not going to listen to you and all the things you're saying against her. What role do you play in her miserable ways? Are you feelilng or thinking anything like her too or worse? Why isn't she giving you respect that you seem to think you need from her. Do you think that she is suicidal or homicidal? Are you afraid of her? Get her help and FAST !! And while you're at it get help for yourself too!! :(

Answer 6

I think if you are anything like my husband you may be the one driving her to be this way.My husband is so bossy, stubborn, controlling, selfish, mean, rude, emotionally abusive, mentally abusive, drunk, disrespectful to his wife, does not know how to take care of his own daughter, does not care that I am pregnant, and many , many more. --------- It is simple you must first change your self , give respect if you want it, treat with compassion, show her affection, tell her you love her, give her a hug more often, help out if she feels ill, let her be if she is too annoying to you , let her be right, admit when you are wrong ,the list goes on, and mostly get your self help before you criticize others.If you love her show it and do not just claim it , a woman scorned can be very easily saddened and what goes around comes around .Woman are emotional weather men like it or not so stop treating her like you want to control her and love her already so she can get over her problem(you) and the both of you can be happy and not just you.

Answer 7

No, she is not having mental problems,

she is just showing a few bad characters: too negative, impatient, selfish ets.

what you have to do as her husband is lead her to be a better person! tell her that what she is doing now is very damaging to your relationship (give & take, remember?) and tell her to CHANGE for your n her sake, as you can't stand her behaviour anymore.

but she is definitely, definitely not mentally-ill.

all the best, i totally noe how ur feeling :D

Answer 8

It doesn't sound like you have a very happy home life.
Your wife may be suffering from several illnesses, such as depression or possibly bipolar disorder.
Either that or she is just a very unhappy woman.
I would suggest a complete physical from her doctor, first of all.
And then perhaps psychological counseling.
Best wishes!

Answer 9

i have the same kind of mood swing I've been diagnosed with paranoid bio-polar I've been struggling for years and I've had many failed relationships because of it but if you love her let her know but don't smother her she will give you respect when she feels good and comfortable and relaxed. its a hard thing to deal with this kind of person but there is help out there contact if interested.

Answer 10

Perhaps she has problems with her mental health, or perhaps the two of you are experiencing relationship problems. I recommend that both of you get a psychological evaluation and perhaps you should also look into marriage counseling.